- Yes, there is a girl I regret breaking up with
- No, I don't regret any of the break ups
- It's complicated
- I just want to see the answers
Most Helpful Guy
Well I am 46. I broke up with a woman for the very first time in my life almost 1 yr ago. During the last 14 months I have broke up with 3 women. I still feel like shit about all of them. But since my divorce (which I didn't want) I feel I shouldn't have to be unhappy. I was willing to be unhappy to save my marriage, but not for a stranger.
I only went on dates with 5 women when I was young. all dumped me or just didn't want to go out again.
Since my divorce 14 months ago I went out with 12 women. (I tried to date way too early and 9 were from March til end of May.
5 were just "meet for drinks" that never went any farther. I don't count those as dates.
3 I broke up with. 2 broke up with me. all but one of the others was just a mutual.. don't want to continue.
I am currently with the most amazing woman ever. I already know at just less then a month, that if she doesn't break up with me.. I will marry her one day...
Most Helpful Girl
I'm a lesbian and wanted to answer.. aheheheehe.. A. I break up w/girls when we start to get serious cos I'm like woah: FEELINGS. WHAT U DOIN HERE. TOO MUCH. GET OUT. BYE
Which makes not so much sense cos then I still have feelings after breakup, but now I've ruined my chances at being happy w/the feelings and I'm just left w/cold sad emptiness I'm fucking awful.
I don't know what it is.. like.. trust issues? Commitment issues? Fears of abandonment (Break-up-with-b4-broken-up-with... or: break up b4 you catch MORE feelings than you already have)
I think it's the last cos I basically panic and I'm like woahhh: abort mission. Retreat. Self-destruct