I know it super hard to let go when you love someone, but you shouldn't have to be hurt over some asshole, no offense. If you forgive him he may think that if he does it again you'll just get over it like the first time. I know it's too late now, but if he was smart he would have just talked to you about why you weren't having sex and worked things out rather than looking for another person to sleep with. My best friend is dealing with the same thing and this is basically what i told her. However, to you I'm just some stranger on the internet, so by no means do you have to listen to any answers on here, it's just my opinion! Good luck, be happy!
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Break up with him? I mean he wouldn't go back on his words and hurt you if he really loved you. Besides, how many weak moments of his you wanna have before you cry your eyes out?
what a shitty situation, i'd tell you that if you love him, forgive him but he kinda sounds like an asshole.. :( it would be a shame if he would do that to you again
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Can you imagine ever trusting him completely? If not, it's over; you can make the breakup drag out over several months but it will happen. There are two types of guys: those who will treat you with the behavior you deserve and those who will give you excuses for why they didn't treat you the way you deserved. Which type do you want?
I'd text him and say you can't be in a relationship with a liar and leave a red faced emoji at the end of your text.
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If what he did is something you can't look over. Leave.
Well if you're saved and going to church maybe you can ask the head man to baptize him in flames. Just kidding, but seriously you need to leave his sleazy ass quickly.
You can't have love without trust. He sounds immature and not willing to commit to you. Do yourself a favor and find someone better who won't lie to you or flirt with other girls.
sounds like a total dick. Break up with him.
I dont see how a is even an option for you...
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