This person is alive
They weren't the best influence in your life, they brought a lot of negativity and drama into it
You decided it was best to cutt ties and you saw major improvement in yourself mentally, work wise , school wise like a complete 360 "well almost"
You put in efforts to fix several of your broken friendships that were ruined during that time when you had too much negativity too handle
All but this one and everyday since this person somhow manages to be a thought even if it's just once a day.
"It's usually been more" since it's getting close to the 1 yr mark.
Fix it or Leave it?
Note: last I check friends confirmed that this person misses me too but every time you reach out to this person they're usually unresponsive but come back later at the most inconvenient time to try and talk like "showing up at your job"
You don't feel like playing this game, you still have a lot on your plate and things to improve but your conscious won't shut up
personal experience appreciated, tell me how it worked for you
Most Helpful Girl
Let this person go. Missing each other is normal, because even if it was full of negativity, you still cared. But this relationship may not suit you, friendship or otherwise because your frequencies are off/misaligned.
Just accept it and agree to it. "Sure, I miss this person. But it's better this way."
I distract myself. I watch movies or read books/ short stories. I put my energy into things I want to do... like write or draw.
The other option is, talk to more people and find someone else you enjoy being together with, to connect with.
As it goes - get over someone by getting into someone. :)3
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