Every morning the first thought that pops into my head before I even open my eyes is my ex. It's strange because I haven't had any dreams about her, but she's always what I'm thinking about when I wake up. We dated for almost 2 years and we got a long great the entire time, but the last 2 weeks of our relationship I realized that she is not what I want, and that I had been forcing myself to be with her the whole time. So I broke up with her, and I am in a good mood most of the time now, with the occasional phases of missing the relationship (not her), remembering our memories together, and questioning myself. But waking up with her on my mind every morning since we broke up is starting to bother me. Has anyone had this happen? It's so strange.
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Sometimes it isn't the person you miss it's the memories. You were with her for a few years , so even though you ended the relationship she was a part of your life for a long time, so it is understandable you will think about her often
I was in a very unhappy, controlling relationship, but after i ended it i woke up every morning thinking of my ex , and he was the last thing on my mind before going to sleep. It faded over me.
You had the strength to walk away because you felt the relationship wasn't right for you... which shows your strength of character. It is not easy walking away from something you know isn't right for you, a lot of people stay in a relationship which isn't what they want , because it is what they have been used to for so long.
The fear of change scares them and they think it'll be too painful to leave and move on, but it's more painful to stay stuck in a relationship where you don't belong
The first step towards getting what you want is admitting , accepting and taking the risk of leaving behind what you don't want. You have taken that huge step. Don't make the mistake of believing that because you think of her often that it's a sign you want or need her back. 💛2
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