In my opinion there some evidence why women initiate divorce in much more chances than men: - Most women like changes, about a lot things: friends, interests, way of life... Why not to think they also like changing her partner more than men? I have also noticed that feelings about some people are weaker in women than in men, a perfect combination to be more interested in divorce. - Most women required much higher attention than men from friends, their partner and this makes much easier for them to break up a friendship or a marriage. - Every women know that the justice usually give them the family home, the custody of all their children and an important part of their husband's salary, so their new economic situation won't be worse. And if they want to have another partner, they will have it easier than their husband to find a new partner.
For three main reasons. Women are more emotional than men and are unpredictable. The brainwashing of the media and feminism encourages women to not need a man. And the divorce laws are set up to benefit women in most cases. This is a deliberate agenda by the government to destroy marriage and family. In the natural we are beyond repair. Too much damage has been done. Things will never be the same again, which is why I'll never get into another relationship ever again. Screw western women, and screw the government.
As has been said, women stand to gain A LOT more from divorce than men. Heck, the entire system of marriage is catered towards women and women only. Men really don't get much besides the title of husband.
Men get way out of any relationship, period. Women make the relationship FIRST while men make us 2nd, 3rd or last and their life and careers are first. Women invest more of themselves into a marriage and even moreso if they had children.
1. A divorce is a financially beneficial option to a woman vs a man. It benefits the woman more whereas the man is the one that loses everything. There isn't even a fear about child custody unless some extreme reason the woman by default gets it
2. Women are generally short sighted and emotionally impulsive. I. e a 20 year old dating a 40 year old without thinking about how bad that is long term. The guy will likely die over 20 years earlier than her.
If they feel upset, there isn't an act on logic and reason but instead emotion
3. Women have less of a fear than men of being emotionally destroyed. Women fall in love quicker but also fall out of love much quicker
A lot of women start that process because many men do not even know what they want and a lot of them cheat on their wives just because they think they can and also think they are god's gift to women.. and to satisfy the big ego's that a lot of them have they also feel they will never get caught at it.. but they all do eventually.. all the power to the women when they get rid of the cheating jerks who do that sort of thing to them
Divorce benefits women and there's no disencentive to do so. Also, family courts make it VERY EASY for women to just jack him for all his stuff and enslave him into financial servitude.
This wasn't the case before no-fault divorce. Now, a woman can cheat on a man, then divorce him for no reason, AND still make him pay.
Because the law and divorce settlements are on their side. They can take their husband to the cleaners, keep the kids (if they want) and then get smashed by an plethora of dudes.
Because girls want a wedding--not a marriage. When men consider marriage, they consider what its gonne be like AFTER the wedding, and they prepare themselves for maintaining a marriage.
Women are just focused on looking pretty for their fairy tale wedding.
Some women just get tired of their husbands bullshit. Others, as previously stated, had an idea in mind when marrying them but that idea didn't pan out & the real person came out. I don't know just a thought. I initiated my divorce so I'm not sure for all females. But for me I got tired of his lack of effort towards our marriage. At first I just wanted to separate but then it lead to divorce eventually. If I had it to do over I'd have done it differently.
Men don't hear us while we're willing to stay, wanting to work it out, and so our needs go unmet and eventually we get fed up with being neglected/hurt, so we're the ones who away. It's only AFTER we've been pushed THAT far when men finally wake up and get it that we meant it.
I think you have a valid point. I must admit that most men are oblivious as to how their wives feel and what's going on with them. I also think part of the reason for this is women aren't always exactly clear and direct about what they want and why.
@Knuckles77 It's both, some don't open up to be heard and then some men just don't listen. I've seen guys over and over believe that because they were happy it meant everything was fine no matter what the wife said. Maybe men think 'if she's here, she's happy,' and then only realize she's not once she's gone? lol
No. What I think it is is men tend to project how happy they may be on their mate, or when dating project their interest level on to the female they're seeing, then are stunned when they get dumped.
Women are more likely to be the victims of domestic abuse and because of that it makes them more likely to file for divorce. When men cheat again women are more likely to file for divorce, because had the woman not of found out most would of happily carried on with their marriage. Also men statistically cheat more then women so again, it's the woman filing for divorce.
there's already two reasons why women are more likely to file for divorce.
However men aren't always the ones in the wrong and women may file for divorce for financial gain or to keep their children to themselves.
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Possible reasons:
1. Many women settle when it comes to marriage and they only do it because of social pressure. The guy they settle for is not the guy they truly lust for or want and so they end up being sexual/emotional frustrated in having to see him everyday and pretend they love him. This builds up until they divorce.
2. Some women marry men for their money and are just looking for any excuse to divorce them to take 1/2.
3. Many women place all the entertainment, romance and basically keeping the relationship fun and exciting on men. When the man gets "comfortable" and stop putting out. Woman gets bored, falls out of love and divorces. Rather than trying herself.
"because social scientists previously argued that women were more likely to initiate divorce simply because they were more sensitive to relationship difficulties. If that were true, women would initiate divorce and breakups at equal rates" -Huffington Post
I'm going to be going through this whole thing soon. I have been married to my wife for 16 years and we have 3 children together. I have never cheated or abused her in any way and worked hard to support my family so she could stay home and not work for almost 13 years to be with the kids. Now, she comes out to me and tells me she realizes she's lesbian and isn't happy being with a man anymore and wants to divorce. Even telling me I have done nothing wrong. She told me she wants us to work out a mutual agreement without lawyers because she doesn't feel it's right to take me for child support and spousal support since she's the one that wants to leave the marriage for her own personal reasons. As long as I'm going to be there in the kids lives and help support them. I guess we'll just see how this will all play out when it comes time to file and go before the judge.
1. Divorce laws tend to favor the wife. 2. All too many women have unrealistic expectations about marriage to begin with! They want men to be sensitive and caring, but then strong and leading as well. They want men who accomodate their career desires, but still earn more, so they are good providers. They want the man nurturing, but then they want him aggressive. They want a stud in bed, but then they want him to not pressure her into sex. Well guess what? That's. Not. Realistic.
Why do you think it's mostly women who initiate divorce? In my opinion it's because divorce is the only benefit from marriage for gals as marriage is generally sh*t for gals where the male has the advantage. Plus I find most gals idealize males and romanticize marriage and reality hits them hard when to me they find out how sh*tty most males are in pair bonding and teamwork.
Are you kidding guys are brilliant at teamwork have you ever worked in an office full of females who rather than do their jobs gossip and bitch behind each others backs, the younger they are the worse.
@Clungesponge90 I have worked in an office and found it is males who tend to bitch and gossip however when gals do it it is being catty while when males do so it is just roughhousing or playing around. Though I find most behaviors tend to be dismissed or excused I'm males while raged on in gals.
In my experience males cannot do teamwork as they continously try to be the leader. And when it comes to gals it seems most guys think ala gender roles by virtue of having a dick they are the de facto leader. I find guys rarely can work as a team with any as it would mean being equals and they completely suck at working as a team with gals because they do not regard gals as equals.
I doubt your account very much having years of experience over you in the work place. Guys mostly keep their heads down and do their work withoit drama.
@Spermdumpster666 "Well 40years vs your 3 as part of the work force is literally a lifetime of experience." I question your reading skills. First off the 40 years are my account not his. Second off where did you get 3 years from? Show me where I stated I have 3 years experience.
@Spermdumster666 "Well 40years vs your 3 as part of the work force is literally a lifetime of experience." I question your reading skills. First off the 40 years are my account not his. Second off where did you get 3 years from? Show me where I stated I have 3 years experience.
why would a guy want to divorce? they lose half their stuff if they have no marital contract and on top of that they have to pay alimony as if we´re not living in a equal society, where women can´t get a fucking job xD
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In my opinion there some evidence why women initiate divorce in much more chances than men:
- Most women like changes, about a lot things: friends, interests, way of life... Why not to think they also like changing her partner more than men? I have also noticed that feelings about some people are weaker in women than in men, a perfect combination to be more interested in divorce.
- Most women required much higher attention than men from friends, their partner and this makes much easier for them to break up a friendship or a marriage.
- Every women know that the justice usually give them the family home, the custody of all their children and an important part of their husband's salary, so their new economic situation won't be worse. And if they want to have another partner, they will have it easier than their husband to find a new partner.
For three main reasons. Women are more emotional than men and are unpredictable. The brainwashing of the media and feminism encourages women to not need a man. And the divorce laws are set up to benefit women in most cases. This is a deliberate agenda by the government to destroy marriage and family. In the natural we are beyond repair. Too much damage has been done. Things will never be the same again, which is why I'll never get into another relationship ever again. Screw western women, and screw the government.
As has been said, women stand to gain A LOT more from divorce than men. Heck, the entire system of marriage is catered towards women and women only. Men really don't get much besides the title of husband.
Men get way out of any relationship, period. Women make the relationship FIRST while men make us 2nd, 3rd or last and their life and careers are first. Women invest more of themselves into a marriage and even moreso if they had children.
@BrunetteNYC that's quite the generalization.
There are a number of reasons. The main ones
1. A divorce is a financially beneficial option to a woman vs a man. It benefits the woman more whereas the man is the one that loses everything. There isn't even a fear about child custody unless some extreme reason the woman by default gets it
2. Women are generally short sighted and emotionally impulsive. I. e a 20 year old dating a 40 year old without thinking about how bad that is long term. The guy will likely die over 20 years earlier than her.
If they feel upset, there isn't an act on logic and reason but instead emotion
3. Women have less of a fear than men of being emotionally destroyed. Women fall in love quicker but also fall out of love much quicker
in my opinion it is because most women overly idealize the romantic idea of marriage, and realize marriage is not what they imagined.
I would say that it's men who romanticize marriage more and that's why they don't initiate divorce.
Yeah wut?
Dude gurlz b da sharx, who tend to view the marriage contract as... a contract. Like, a business contract.
You are almost certainly thinking of the way women romanticize WEDDINGS, dude. That's a completely different animal.
And they deserve half of your stuff for their mistake~
Because she didn't sign the prenup and upon realizing marriage isn't what she thought, she sees independence through taking half of his money.
Women date and marry for resources of men.
A lot of women start that process because many men do not even know what they want and a lot of them cheat on their wives just because they think they can and also think they are god's gift to women.. and to satisfy the big ego's that a lot of them have they also feel they will never get caught at it.. but they all do eventually.. all the power to the women when they get rid of the cheating jerks who do that sort of thing to them
Divorce benefits women and there's no disencentive to do so. Also, family courts make it VERY EASY for women to just jack him for all his stuff and enslave him into financial servitude.
This wasn't the case before no-fault divorce. Now, a woman can cheat on a man, then divorce him for no reason, AND still make him pay.
Because the law and divorce settlements are on their side. They can take their husband to the cleaners, keep the kids (if they want) and then get smashed by an plethora of dudes.
Because girls want a wedding--not a marriage. When men consider marriage, they consider what its gonne be like AFTER the wedding, and they prepare themselves for maintaining a marriage.
Women are just focused on looking pretty for their fairy tale wedding.
And waiting until the husband has enough in his bank account.
Some women just get tired of their husbands bullshit. Others, as previously stated, had an idea in mind when marrying them but that idea didn't pan out & the real person came out. I don't know just a thought. I initiated my divorce so I'm not sure for all females. But for me I got tired of his lack of effort towards our marriage. At first I just wanted to separate but then it lead to divorce eventually. If I had it to do over I'd have done it differently.
Men don't hear us while we're willing to stay, wanting to work it out, and so our needs go unmet and eventually we get fed up with being neglected/hurt, so we're the ones who away. It's only AFTER we've been pushed THAT far when men finally wake up and get it that we meant it.
I think you have a valid point. I must admit that most men are oblivious as to how their wives feel and what's going on with them. I also think part of the reason for this is women aren't always exactly clear and direct about what they want and why.
@Knuckles77 It's both, some don't open up to be heard and then some men just don't listen. I've seen guys over and over believe that because they were happy it meant everything was fine no matter what the wife said. Maybe men think 'if she's here, she's happy,' and then only realize she's not once she's gone? lol
No. What I think it is is men tend to project how happy they may be on their mate, or when dating project their interest level on to the female they're seeing, then are stunned when they get dumped.
Women are more likely to be the victims of domestic abuse and because of that it makes them more likely to file for divorce.
When men cheat again women are more likely to file for divorce, because had the woman not of found out most would of happily carried on with their marriage. Also men statistically cheat more then women so again, it's the woman filing for divorce.
there's already two reasons why women are more likely to file for divorce.
However men aren't always the ones in the wrong and women may file for divorce for financial gain or to keep their children to themselves.
Possible reasons:
1. Many women settle when it comes to marriage and they only do it because of social pressure. The guy they settle for is not the guy they truly lust for or want and so they end up being sexual/emotional frustrated in having to see him everyday and pretend they love him. This builds up until they divorce.
2. Some women marry men for their money and are just looking for any excuse to divorce them to take 1/2.
3. Many women place all the entertainment, romance and basically keeping the relationship fun and exciting on men. When the man gets "comfortable" and stop putting out. Woman gets bored, falls out of love and divorces. Rather than trying herself.
"because social scientists previously argued that women were more likely to initiate divorce simply because they were more sensitive to relationship difficulties. If that were true, women would initiate divorce and breakups at equal rates" -Huffington Post
I'm going to be going through this whole thing soon. I have been married to my wife for 16 years and we have 3 children together. I have never cheated or abused her in any way and worked hard to support my family so she could stay home and not work for almost 13 years to be with the kids. Now, she comes out to me and tells me she realizes she's lesbian and isn't happy being with a man anymore and wants to divorce. Even telling me I have done nothing wrong. She told me she wants us to work out a mutual agreement without lawyers because she doesn't feel it's right to take me for child support and spousal support since she's the one that wants to leave the marriage for her own personal reasons. As long as I'm going to be there in the kids lives and help support them. I guess we'll just see how this will all play out when it comes time to file and go before the judge.
I'm sorry to hear you're going through so many shocking changes. I hope things work out and get better for you.
1. Divorce laws tend to favor the wife.
2. All too many women have unrealistic expectations about marriage to begin with! They want men to be sensitive and caring, but then strong and leading as well. They want men who accomodate their career desires, but still earn more, so they are good providers. They want the man nurturing, but then they want him aggressive. They want a stud in bed, but then they want him to not pressure her into sex. Well guess what? That's. Not. Realistic.
Why do you think it's mostly women who initiate divorce?
In my opinion it's because divorce is the only benefit from marriage for gals as marriage is generally sh*t for gals where the male has the advantage. Plus I find most gals idealize males and romanticize marriage and reality hits them hard when to me they find out how sh*tty most males are in pair bonding and teamwork.
Are you kidding guys are brilliant at teamwork have you ever worked in an office full of females who rather than do their jobs gossip and bitch behind each others backs, the younger they are the worse.
@Clungesponge90
I have worked in an office and found it is males who tend to bitch and gossip however when gals do it it is being catty while when males do so it is just roughhousing or playing around. Though I find most behaviors tend to be dismissed or excused I'm males while raged on in gals.
In my experience males cannot do teamwork as they continously try to be the leader. And when it comes to gals it seems most guys think ala gender roles by virtue of having a dick they are the de facto leader. I find guys rarely can work as a team with any as it would mean being equals and they completely suck at working as a team with gals because they do not regard gals as equals.
I doubt your account very much having years of experience over you in the work place. Guys mostly keep their heads down and do their work withoit drama.
@Clungesponge90
My account also includes many people male and female who probably have way more experience than you (40 years).
Well 40years vs your 3 as part of the work force is literally a lifetime of experience.
@Spermdumpster666
"Well 40years vs your 3 as part of the work force is literally a lifetime of experience."
I question your reading skills. First off the 40 years are my account not his. Second off where did you get 3 years from? Show me where I stated I have 3 years experience.
@Spermdumster666
"Well 40years vs your 3 as part of the work force is literally a lifetime of experience."
I question your reading skills. First off the 40 years are my account not his. Second off where did you get 3 years from? Show me where I stated I have 3 years experience.
why would a guy want to divorce? they lose half their stuff if they have no marital contract and on top of that they have to pay alimony as if we´re not living in a equal society, where women can´t get a fucking job xD
because women benefit financially from divorce. also the modern women sleeps with lots of men which inhibits her ability to pair bond.
haha at the women that down voted you. It is funny how most women won't admit something that is the truth because it does not favour women.
Look at those bitter women who can't hack the truth, down rating and then they complain about men not respecting them. You have just spoken the truth.