I went to a party with some female friends, my boyfriend didn't come since it was a girls night out and he went out with his friends somewhere else. I saw an old classmate of mine and while I was talking to him he kept giving me some cups of juice and I didn't know until later that it was mixed with alcohol! One thing lead to another and before I knew it I was in his lap kissing him on a couch. As soon as I realized what was happening I pushed him away and left.
My boyfriend wasn't at the party but one of his friends told him what happened. I confessed but he told me I cheated and he was leaving me. I feel awful and can't eat or sleep I just keep crying. I love him so much and I was not in the right mind frame. I texted him a few times but he didn't respond. We go to the same college and I saw him a few times but he pretends like he doesn't see me and ignores me.
What can I do, I swear I didn't know I was drinking alcohol since I'm still too young, but it impaired me. My boyfriend is the greatest guy ever and I really f-ed up. What can I do?
Most Helpful Guy
You can keep trying to convince him but the trust has been broken now between you and it will take a long time (if ever) to rebuild that. I don't know how long you guys have been together but alcohol or not, most people can still make that judgement to kiss someone or not. If you were impaired that much you may have a drinking problem? If he's ignoring you now it's over for him 100%. You can keep trying but you likely facing a loosing battle. You might just have to chalk it up to you messed up, take it as a learning lesson and move on as best you can. Keep this in mind for future relationships.1
Most Helpful Girl
... you didn't know that you were drinking alcohol? I've never heard of such a thing. The fact that you're young has no influence on simply realizing that you're drinking something.
I'd say that you should go see a psychiatrist to resolve that issue before you try to get back with your boyfriend. Trying to drag him back to being with you following your cheating on him, then trying to blame it on alcohol. Despite the fact that you were magically capable enough to kiss another guy, yet not capable of realizing that you'd been drinking in the first place.0
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