How to end a relationship with a self harming girlfriend?
What Girls Said 1
Be honest and tell her that. Maybe FB message a friend and tell them to keep an eye on her. At some point you can't take the blame or energy for someone elses decision. Everyone has to deal with their issues and sometimrd you have to be selfish for your own mental stability. Tell her you need a break. This way it leaves up a possibility without the compromise and see how she manages it. Your in an ideal position because your far away and dont have to deal with the drama of her in person. If she crosses that continent and you leave her than that just makes it a more sticky situation. Better to rip the bandaid now than later. Dont waste her or your time. of you are not commited.
What Guys Said 1
What about a gradual slowing down of talking back and forth and cutting back communication to start with. Do you know or have access to contacting her family? Maybe give them a heads up as what is about to happen so they can look in on her.
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