My ex sent me this, and I've tried so hard to convince him I've changed and he just won't believe me no matter what I say, I know actions speak louder than words but he won't allow me to prove it him by giving me a chance. He cheated on me and broke up with me yet I'm still fighting for us. I took time apart from him to work on myself and make positive changes and I then apologised to him and admitted my part in the downfall of our relationship. we got along really well and had a good conversation yesterday and now all of a sudden he has turned. I'm so hurt
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If you make changes they should be because you have identified that changes need to be made. That is how the changes are genuine. If the purpose is merely to win someone back then your reasons are wrong. Even if the reasons are right, there is nothing to say that a person will give you a second chance. Life doesn't always give second chances, which is why it's important to try and not fuck up too badly in the first place. You had your chance the first time around and you didn't take it. He is clearly angry with you and hurt and is in no mood to take you back. You have to take that on the chin, suck it up and move on.
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