There is never really a good excuse to physically harm someone. Anyone has the right to leave you, break up with you, or refuse to date you for any reason whatsoever. That can even be a stupid-as-shit superficial reason, but it's a reason nonetheless. You can feel hurt, you can feel sad, you can feel betrayed, but physically assaulting someone is not the best answer. If you've been cheated on, I might sympathize with such a physical response because in that case your "boyfriend" has knowingly put you at risk of STDs by not respecting your monogamy.
If you're cheated on, don't react physically, however much you may want to. Ruin his reputation. Post about it online, make sure his friends and family sees it, especially his female friends and family, such as sisters and mothers. Men put on a tough guise until their social status is assaulted and people look down on them for their actions. This is the best way to deal with a cheater, no matter what their gender.
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No, that's bullshit. He isn't obliged to stay in a relationship he doesn't want, breaking up is the most mature decision he can make (cuz some people choose cheating over breaking up) so you too be mature and move on. It's not like he's been physically violent towards you.
I would say the only situation in which kicking in the balls is acceptable is if someone attempts to rape you, or if they sexually assaulted you.
No, no and no.
Always treat people the way you'd like to be treated. It doesn't matter how bad the person is. Remember that you're only human too and one day you can do things you'll regret, hurt someone, etc. Maybe by accident maybe not. But we all do mistakes and we all hope for a forgivness.
It seems very dangerous to kick a guy in his balls no matter what the reason is as it can cause serious permanent damage. One of my best friends was arrested for kicking a guy when she was drunk. He ended up having to have one of his balls removed.
Of fucking course not.
This is the most ridiculous post I've seen yet today.
Physical assault is NEVER an appropriate response to a breakup or even cheating. If you kick someone in the testicles because you are emotionally upset you deserve to get punched in your ridiculous face.
And what is this bullshit about "girls feeling more emotionally and boys feeling physically"? There is literally no basis for this belief.
Fuck. Kicking people in their genitles cause they made you unhappy. Wtf. I swear some people on this app are boarder line retarded.
You should never physically hit someone if it isn't in self defense. I've had an ex who tried to fist fight me, has to wrestle her down to stop her but even when I let her go she'd come at me. Just remove yourself from the situation
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My first ever girlfriend was really jealous about me breaking up with her and seeing another girl in school. We were 13 at the time and we had been going out for a few months before we broke up. She caught me on the field and ran up to hug me and she said goodbye. Then she brought her knee up right in my balls and it was so hard I was crying and puking on the floor in serious pain. She laughed and said that I won't be able to have kids with my new girlfriend. Then she went to find her and she said I broke your boyfriends balls in pieces and she kicked my girlfriend in the fanny and made her cry. After that she kept taunting us both and said we can't have kids now. My girlfriend was really worried about the knee I got in the balls and she made me wear a cup for school after that. It wasn't fair at all and I couldn't ejaculate for ages after. It was so frustrating that I kept crying about it. So my girlfriend gave me a photograph of her sat on a chair with her legs hunched up to her chest and she was wearing a denim skirt and she opened her legs and I finally got hard because I could see her pink frilly knickers. But it felt so horrible to think my ex had kicked her right in there. Girls can be so mean
No. Look it up; studies show that men are as emotionally distressed by breakups as women are, if not more.
Nope. Sounds pathetic to me and just an excuse to physically attack someone (who they have loved up until that point). If I got cheated on i would be hurt but violence isn't the answer. Share the love people
No. Violence is not the answer! It's immature and shows, that you are a crazy psycho bitch, that's not fit for relationships.
No. That's assault. Why the hell would ANYONE think that's okay to do over a breakup?
I can see why he want to break up with her sounds like she abusive.
People should just be able to break up 🙄 shouldn’t freak out and get mad
I don’t think there’s ever a reason that would make this action acceptable.
Thats assault How would you feel if he punched you in the face?
A girl can't even conceive of the pain a guy feels being kicked in the balls. So take your emotional pain and shove it up your ass.
Nope. If you had any moral high ground, you lost it all the second you laid a hand-- or foot-- on him
The proper response to cheating is to kick them out of your life. That is assault, two very different things
If you want to be a man, you'll be treated like a man.
It might be, but not always. The guy who breaks up when you tell him you're pregnant merits it.
It would be, only in the warped mind of the sexist.
No, kicking a man in the balls should only ever be used in self defence.
No, it's never right to hurt someone physically.
I think it's the worst thing I have never heard
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