I know most people say only one or two. But do you believe that someone can mature over time, and truly change? Or will that person always go back to the person they were in the beginning?
Can they really change if they took you for granted multiple times, how many chances should they receive to prove to you that they now mean everything that they say?
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I'd say 2 chances. Nobody's perfect, but if it takes you more than 1 big screw up to get the right idea you're either dumb or you don't care that much. People (especially adults) do not change their personality very easily. It often takes years and a great deal of emotional suffering for somebody to make a real change in their personality. There are lots of people out there who are more than willing to take advantage of someone who is too forgiving.0