Would you leave your partner if they became unattractive? (Page 3)
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No, what if I started becoming unattractive to them are they going to leave? I would hope looks don’t matter anymore if you’ve been with them so long
Nope, they’d always be attractive to me, even if he gained large amounts of weight he’s still the same person from before
What is your definition of becoming "unattractive"?
Physically? Mentally/emotionally? Intellectually? Sexually?
And how?
I wouldn't leave. My fiance has gotten a lot chubbier over this year and I still love him. I'm not into chubby guys but with him it doesn't matter.
No.. but my sex drive would go down. I'd probably stay in the relationship but avoid sexual advances.. (if it got that bad)
I don't find my partner attractive. I never have. I love him because if who he is.
His personality? If I were him I'd feel ugly
If by unattractive you mean looks then no I won't leave, but if it's about personality and such then yes.
What do you mean becoming unattractive? I don't see myself finding someone unattractive while I've been always attracted to him.
No when you love you love everything about your partner and looks by time will not matter you can just help make him look better i guess if it bothers you
It doesn't matter if my baby got into a bad burning accident I would never stop loving her the same way I did when I first laid eyes on her but that's just the way love and loyalty should always be
No, but I probably wouldn't be interested in intimacy with her if she gained a bunch of weight.
On the other hand if she happened to get scarred or burned, I'd still want intimacy with her.
That contradicts what people usually say about how they pick personality over looks
If I was as shallow as a kiddie pool then yes. The only way I would leave her is if her personality changed for the worse. And that would be an absolute last resort. I would attempt to do everything I could to save the relationship
Ideally, even as his looks change, I’ve developed feelings much deeper than skin deep ones.
I could talk to them and try to fix it? Like if it's a weight problem, or a skin care problem it can be fixed
A long term thing? no, i mean if i love them i wouldn't leave because of that.
Yes, my partner needs to care for his physical appearance in order for him to love me of course..
See this is why i eat people. So shallow
Maybe it's the love dying out if not then tell her before I decide to leave what has become unattractive about her
Leaving my partner for her potential unattractiveness means that I am only attracted to her for her looks in the first place... not for her personality and care, which is shallow and dumb.
I would not leave her if she becomes unattractive, but I have to admit that I wouldn’t start a relationship with a person that I don’t found attractive