Cheating, is it a "mistake", or a "decision"? (Page 2)

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Cheating...  What do you think?  Is it a "mistake"?  Is it a bad decision?  My perspective:I look at it as a series of bad decisions.  It was no accident that a person meet another of the opposite sex...  Not an accident that the two DECIDE to see each other naked...  Not an accident that a vajina was penetrated by a penis.  All seem intentional to me.  So how is it a mistake?  Someone mistakenly went into a room or place where someone (that is not the significant other) else were naked, tripped, fallen and a penis mistakenly penetrates a vajina?  Don't seem like a mistake, because if I entered a room wherein a naked person not being my significant other is, I would exit and part my ways.  I can honestly say I have never cheated or even flirted with another woman if I am committed to someone.  I can not imagine myself cheating, and don't understand the compulsion to do so.I was confronted with an opportunity of cheating, but nothing happened because I controlled the situation.  The only thought in my head was if my fiance cheated on me, I'd rip her f*cking heart out of her chest... and I'd expect the same for myself if I were to cheat on her.  What are these people thinking?!?I was cheated on once, and I caught her in the act, with my roommate while I was in the military 8 years ago.  She claimed it were a "mistake"...  I laughed, and then scoffed,"So you mistakenly fell on top of him naked and his penis 'mistakenly' went inside of you, right?  Get the F*ck out of my face, or I'd kill you where you stand."  I ended the relationship that instance.  And she gave me back my damn ring too.However, I want to see what you think...  Do you consider it a "mistake" or a "decision" when it comes to cheating?I want explanations...  Explain your answer.

smile8 · Answer

decision. at some point in time you want to be with that person no matter how much you "love" your other half.

lexic · Answer

Undoubtedly a decision, unless if you weren't sober.

But I agree with the "series of bad decisions."

A relationship means dedication, if you can't offer that then why be in a relationship in the first place?

igundownlemurs · Answer

its already pretty f***ed up to cheat, but you also have to realize what your doing

Anonymous · Answer

Feels good,  but  morally wrong...sometims the feels good wins...

mmcherrybomb · Answer

It's a mistake that you decide to do. A decision requires time to think about your actions and it's consequences. It would depend on the situation, but in most circumstances a girl doesn't have enough time to think about it. That doesn't take away any responsibility or make it right, because if she really cared about you then a girl wouldn't ever even take being with another guy into consideration. It would be out of the question.

Anonymous · Answer

It's a decision. A really bad decision. You know it's wrong but do it anyway

sleepingbch · Answer

cheating is fire. You can't predict period.

hayleymadison · Answer

Bad decision

destiny13 · Answer

DECISION!

digmelovebug · Answer

Decision.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Decision. Completely intentional

Anonymous · Answer

Both.

Anonymous · Answer

both

JennieF · Answer

Decision.

Anonymous · Answer

cheating is wrong

Anonymous · Answer

it depends...

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