Cheating... What do you think? Is it a "mistake"? Is it a bad decision?
I look at it as a series of bad decisions. It was no accident that a person meet another of the opposite sex... Not an accident that the two DECIDE to see each other naked... Not an accident that a vajina was penetrated by a penis. All seem intentional to me. So how is it a mistake? Someone mistakenly went into a room or place where someone (that is not the significant other) else were naked, tripped, fallen and a penis mistakenly penetrates a vajina? Don't seem like a mistake, because if I entered a room wherein a naked person not being my significant other is, I would exit and part my ways. I can honestly say I have never cheated or even flirted with another woman if I am committed to someone. I can not imagine myself cheating, and don't understand the compulsion to do so.
I was confronted with an opportunity of cheating, but nothing happened because I controlled the situation. The only thought in my head was if my fiance cheated on me, I'd rip her f*cking heart out of her chest... and I'd expect the same for myself if I were to cheat on her. What are these people thinking?!?
I was cheated on once, and I caught her in the act, with my roommate while I was in the military 8 years ago. She claimed it were a "mistake"... I laughed, and then scoffed,"So you mistakenly fell on top of him naked and his penis 'mistakenly' went inside of you, right? Get the F*ck out of my face, or I'd kill you where you stand." I ended the relationship that instance. And she gave me back my damn ring too.
However, I want to see what you think... Do you consider it a "mistake" or a "decision" when it comes to cheating?
I want explanations... Explain your answer.
- Decision, because people know what they do.Vote A
- Mistake, because people do it unintentionally.Vote B
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I have always said that cheating means you don't respect your partner, and you don't love her or him, cause if you really loved him you would respect her. My es parner was cheating on me , didn't know he was engaged to a girl, he always told me he was single and wanted to share just with me. He shared with me almost 7 months , calliing me all days, and I always visted him on weekens or randoms day in teh weeks, caus e I work and study mas master.
i feel horrible when I knew it and feel pity on his fiance. He just one day sended me a message he doesn't want to keep seeing me and he was sorry of all that happened.
So it was not a mistake, it was a decision he mame to share with me, he didn't care of me or his fiance, jsut about himself. It was a decision, he kept it for all those months.
So cheating is not a mistake, if a desicion selfih person do for vengance or just because they don't love their partner as much as they think, or just becaus ethey are for convinience with their partner, among other things, But cheating for me means no love, no respect, and a true selfish person...
And people keep cheating because they know their partner will forgive them, and after time has passed they will do the same..Specially cheater thet keep having affair for months with the same person, if they regret it, the first time he did he would stop but he did not...