Cheating is always a choice and I would never forgive it. I don't see how it could possibly be just a mistake. In fact, it's quite a few choices. Choice to flirt with another person, choice to go with them, choice to go into their/your apartment, choice to take of clothes, choice to have sex... Quite a few chances to reconsider and be faithful..
It can be both depending on the situation and how it is perceived. Some do it knowingly when they choose to be unfaithful and sometimes its a mistake depending on not having the intention to be unfaithful but being caught in a situation you did not agree to be in.
Cheating is a choice, just like shoplifting.
You know that you want that object, but you can't have it.
If you take it anyways, the consequences are yours.
Honestly, if someone is dissatisfied in their relationship, it's less painful usually to break up with them gently and persue the other person
Cheating is a choice. You make the decision to cheat on your partner. You don't just slip on a banana peel and your dick lands in a girl's vagina. You either choose to be faithful or you choose to cheat, there is no "accident" when someone cheats.
It’s a choice, if you’re so invested in someone- how could you even dream of cheating? If someone can do it once, they can do it again and it should never be forgiven.
Just because it's a mistake doesn't mean it's not a choice too.
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Cheating is a choice. It is the decision to betray your partner's trust and then lie about it until you are caught. If you can accidentally sleep with someone, life would be a lot more interesting. If the sex has become so stale that you are considering cheating, then discuss it with your partner. Maybe an open relationship is ideal for you. Cheating is one of the few things that actually make you a bad person
It's a bit of both. It's only a mistake if you're caught though.
It's like eating cakes when you're on a diet. You know you shouldn't but you are so hungry. The temptation had been building... etc.
Then you did it. You broke the promise. You cheated. You beat yourself over it. You swore you will never eat cake without permission again...
Then sometime after... another cake comes along. Here we go again.
its a choice. but i think its just sex, so what? Should I cry because someone tasted my candy? If my girlfriend sleeps with another guy, would it cause any damage to me? Only my pride if I take it as an offence. I think if I knew she loved me I wouldn't freak out. I know that most people think different but for me, a long term relationship isn't meant to be a prison. I wouldn't just go for an open relationship because I don't know if it could work for a longer time.
Cheating is a choice, period.
There's no such thing as "Oh, he tripped on the carpet, and his penis accidentally landed in my vagina." If you find yourself in a situation where you are cheating, be it because you were drunk, had a moment of weakness, whatever, then you are the one who made the choices that resulted in the situation.
There's no excuse for being unable to control your dick, or vagina. No excuse means no forgiveness.
Sometimes a choice, sometimes a mistake. Hard to say unless you know the person. Any general statement or rule you hear will be wrong.
Cheating is a selfish experience.
I always put myself in the other person's shoes. I would never like to be cheated on, so I don't do it to others.
It's a choice since it's theoretically impossible to cheat by mistake.
Choice.
There is no such thing as oops my vagina came in contact with that dudes dick by accident.
It is both. You can't cheat by accident. It is a bad choice.
Choice. They love pleasure more than they love you.
Both simultaneously but that still doesn't take away the fact that it was a choice.
But is the mistake the act of cheating or being in the relationship while you cheated?
Cheating is a choice. Cheating is one of the things that I would never forgive.
Its both. Its a mistake to choose to give in to urges.
Choice that lead to mistake. But that mistake is one I would never forgive
Its a choice... Cheating needs plan.. And u can't plan by mistake.. 😂😂😂
Well, who says that choices can't be mistakes?
How the fuck is cheating an accident?
The answer is definitely yes.
It could be both
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