These are my 3 categories:
Mild incidents... I can let it slide afterall everyone makes mistakes
Moderate, debatable... you should've thought about it, I'm debating whether to forgive or not
Serious/severe... don't even show your face, you've been blocked permanently
Serious things are harming my family, purposely faking a future (faking love), cheating, stealing from me, etc. Harming, cheating or using people aren't an ''oops, I've made a mistake'' thing. Is it ok not to forgive too if they've wronged you badly?