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Do girls ever regret or feel sorry for someone they reject who had feelings for them? (Page 2)
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Yeah, we maybe rude shutting them out sometimes but it's just because we dnt wanna make them hope for us cause it would hurt them in the end and we dnt wanna make them think that we only used them.
Obviously. It’s not a nice feeling to get rejected so being in the position where you reject someone just makes you feel awful and sorry for the person.
why would you feel sorry for a person who you feel is genetically inferior?
Yes we are people with feelings too. It sucks to reject someone. Some chicks might not feel bad and can be quite nasty about it but most of us feel bad.
My opinion is yes, I have a big heart and never like to hurt anyone feelings. But I do believe there are people who are just cruel and make others feel like they never gave a shit.
If he wasn't a creep and I was just not interested then yeah, I'll feel sorry for him in a way.
Regret... I once friendzoned a guy I was actually crushing on aswell and I do now think that I should've given us a shot, but as I know my reasons I won't call that regret.
You are a huge pile of confusions, ma'am!
We had a complicated relationship...
Yea, I felt terrible afterwards. I always feel guilty because I know rejection hurts. But I also try to trust that they will be ok soon, and I eventually get over it.
I don't enjoy it, ad the worst part is sincerely I prefer being first friends then something.. yet guys take this as a double rejection called "friend zone".
It is a challenge I'll grant you, because from our side of things most members of your sex expect us to aggressively pursue from the get go or else they won't find us masculine. Those of us with plenty of confidence tend to learn quickly that that's the way to approach women with the highest likelihood of success. Not to mention it's very much a numbers game for us, so if there's not a little bit of interest shown early on in being more than friends... I know this sounds cruel, but a guy generally feels his time would be better spent chugging through the next ten rejections he knows are coming to find the next potential actual mutual spark of attraction to pursue than to dangle in limbo investing time in a relationship that might not even be heading in the direction of a "relationship". And all of this is assuming said guy isn't just looking for a hook up in the first place... Yeah, tough situation I'll grant you, but that's the male reasoning for it.
That's a Yes and No answer. That being said it's completely vague your question. Because it seriously depends on the girl and the guy who had feelings for her. And the other case is just they don't give af.
Yup :( and then end up with a wrong guy who treats like shit.
I hope you understand that you must break the self destructive pattern with creating new patterns by forcing yourself getting good experiences with someone you normally reject that could be what you need.
Yes, 1000%. It feels really bad especially if you were friends with them first.
Definitely especially after I was rejected myself I finally realized how horrible it must have felt for them
Some people must experience the same to get some degree of understanding to be able to grow and shange as a person, hopefully to something better.
I would feel bad. Because I don't want to be the reason for someone's sadness or pain because I know what it feels like to like somebody and for them to not give a fuck. It's a difficult situation to be in
All the time because I don't like hurting someone else. However, if they're being creepy or douchey... nope.
I don't regret rejecting them but feel sorry for their loss for not accepting me as their friend and missing the great things they could've experienced with me.
I hope you understand that, that aren't gonna be that glorious as you try to paint it up for the other no matter how you bend it!
hahah wow, you're a bighead aren't you. Girls expect a guy to provide them great things, i dont think you're any different and when you look at the diamond ring he provides you will remember this comment ;)
Sometimes I think what would happen If I said yes. Would we be still together or not. But If I felt at that moment that it's not what I wanted then saying no was a good decision.
I felt sorry like guilty in a way, but not regret cause that may have felt right that moment so it would not have worked out
Sometimes they do, especially, for example, if he's a good friend.
No I mean, after they get married...
Sure, it's possible to have some regrets, especially if you're not happy in your marriage. But it's too late at that Point to do something about it.
Maybe some of them do feel sorry, but unfortunately, most of them don't... some girls I know.. treated me very cruel and insensitive, even though I was very polite to them.
I know what if feels like, being in unrequited love :(
Maybe you are the problem tho. Perception is reality. You may think you were being polite but that doesn’t mean other people saw you that way.
@Ellie-V But I never said anything rude to them, I was agreeing on everything they said, I was just being respectable to them.
Sure, if they're respectful about it afterwards. If they "snap" after a no, or keep pressing despite being told "no". Then nope, don't have a bit of sympathy for those guys.
Girls reject initially for the wrong reasons, i treat rejection positively knowing she will fall in love at the right time.