So, my husband is deployed to Iraq. My ex best friend (who's husband is in my husband's unit) said that my husband made a move on her. False, because I'm not conceited.I don't even think I'm attractive, but next to this girl, I look like Angelina Jolie! My husband's 1st SGT even said "why would you go for the big wheel when you have the porche at home?" I mean, she's 5'4" and weighs 200 lbs! Yeah my husband's gonna go for some blimp that's 75 lbs bigger than his wife. And he has always absolutely hated her. Her husband told my husband (this is all happening while their over there mind you) that she was pressing charges. Never happened. A week later she ended up in the mental hospital for a month. Hah, now NO ONE believes her, and everyone's dropped it and it's all blown over. Anyways, before she moved back home while the guys are gone, she stored a few things in my house. I have direct orders from the Captain (even though I don't HAVE to listen to him) not to have any kind of contact with her as she will attempt to use anything against us. I don't want to talk to her anyways.
My husband told her husband that they had a week to find some way to get their stuff out of our house. They never attempted to even come to get it. I would love to just throw it all away.there's a $600 computer I could even pawn! But, I'm afraid that they will somehow use that against us. A few people suggested that I call Rear-Detail and ask them what I should do with it. They may even take it and store it for them. If they still don't come to get it, well then her husband will have to deal with the military, not me. I've pretty much gotten over this, but I really don't want her personally coming to pick up the stuff. She's in PA anyways, but she can fly down here to get it. I honestly have no idea what I would do to her if I saw her. I need more time to completely get over this. I mean, not only did she try to ruin my husband's career, but she f***ed with our marriage! I can't forgive her just yet, but I am trying really hard to forget it. Anyways, I want more than anything to just get rid of it myself and pawn what I can out of pure vengeance.
But, should I just call Rear-D anyways to be on the safe side? We gave them a week, my husband has witnesses that her husband acknowledged that he had a week. But they could still bring it back on us. We already stressed when we thought she was pressing charges. Military does not take cheating on your spouse lightly. They've gone as far to kick someone out. I want so badly to get back at this bitch! I just don't know the best route to get rid of her shit without her attempting to come get it herself. Even if I did give it to Rear-D, she wouldn't know so she'd probably still try to show up at my house. And I wouldn't put it past her to damage something out of spite either. I don't know what to do! This bitch is crazy! I seriously wanna beat the shit out of her for pulling a stunt like that!
My husband told her husband that they had a week to find some way to get their stuff out of our house. They never attempted to even come to get it. I would love to just throw it all away.there's a $600 computer I could even pawn! But, I'm afraid that they will somehow use that against us. A few people suggested that I call Rear-Detail and ask them what I should do with it. They may even take it and store it for them. If they still don't come to get it, well then her husband will have to deal with the military, not me. I've pretty much gotten over this, but I really don't want her personally coming to pick up the stuff. She's in PA anyways, but she can fly down here to get it. I honestly have no idea what I would do to her if I saw her. I need more time to completely get over this. I mean, not only did she try to ruin my husband's career, but she f***ed with our marriage! I can't forgive her just yet, but I am trying really hard to forget it. Anyways, I want more than anything to just get rid of it myself and pawn what I can out of pure vengeance.
But, should I just call Rear-D anyways to be on the safe side? We gave them a week, my husband has witnesses that her husband acknowledged that he had a week. But they could still bring it back on us. We already stressed when we thought she was pressing charges. Military does not take cheating on your spouse lightly. They've gone as far to kick someone out. I want so badly to get back at this bitch! I just don't know the best route to get rid of her shit without her attempting to come get it herself. Even if I did give it to Rear-D, she wouldn't know so she'd probably still try to show up at my house. And I wouldn't put it past her to damage something out of spite either. I don't know what to do! This bitch is crazy! I seriously wanna beat the shit out of her for pulling a stunt like that!
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Well, they never came to get their stuff, so my husband's Master Sergeant called and told me to go to the legal office on post and get legal documents stating I can get rid of the stuff at my own discretion. That's what I'm doing this week.
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