I’ve only done it if the guy makes me fear for my safety (for some reason I have a tendency to attract dangerous people) or if I’ve told him that I’m not interested and he doesn’t seem to get the message, or thinks that he can change my mind.
could be for any reason but i think the most obvious one is they're not interested in talking to u anymore and nobody is obliged to officially announce that. people just go, it's life
Jsut cos a guy does someonething stupid doesn't mean a girl needs to copy. Likewise witg the other way round. Ghosting is horrible the person deserves to be given a no.
It’s easier to stop talking to someone and ignore their messages than have to tell them you don’t like them or don’t want to talk to them anymore which could make them angry or violent
Maybe she lost interest maybe he's insisting too much and that can be a turn off... maybe she met someone else, maybe she doesn't know what she wants but doesn't want to explain that to him
This is what I want to know. I mean I know why, but why not just tell the guy how you feel? He put himself out there. If you have already told him and he continues to contact you, ignoring him is acceptable at that point.
Because that's the man perspective. Secretly she was getting bored but she was too much of a coward to come straight. Since leading on and then disappearing. was more convenient
We do the same sometimes Like i did ghost my tinder date and she was texting me for another 20 mins because i wanted to stay home actually and watch tv instead of going out on date with her
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I’ve only done it if the guy makes me fear for my safety (for some reason I have a tendency to attract dangerous people) or if I’ve told him that I’m not interested and he doesn’t seem to get the message, or thinks that he can change my mind.
but if it's a guy who's your type, clearly that's different,... right?
@McKellar What do you mean? Guys who make me fear for my safety or can't take no for an answer aren't my type.
What about a guy that you feel very safe & comfortable around & express to him that you really like him? That's showing that he's your type, right?
@McKellar Well in that case he would be. But why would I ghost him if he makes me feel comfortable?
That's the thing,... you wouldn't.
They weren't really interested in them (lost interest) and they were afraid to tell them.
They found someone else (which probably falls under not being interested in them).
They should tell the guy!
Yeah
They never really liked him.
Probably a rebound or just soemone to pass the time
people ghost people, period
could be for any reason but i think the most obvious one is they're not interested in talking to u anymore and nobody is obliged to officially announce that. people just go, it's life
deal with it
Guys do the same thing. A lot of memes are made by girls who complain to be left on read by their boyfriend 😂
Jsut cos a guy does someonething stupid doesn't mean a girl needs to copy. Likewise witg the other way round. Ghosting is horrible the person deserves to be given a no.
Ghosting is far worse than a guy not responding to his gfs message within 5 mins lol
It’s easier to stop talking to someone and ignore their messages than have to tell them you don’t like them or don’t want to talk to them anymore which could make them angry or violent
I have ghosted two guys but it was because I told them that I was not interested and they just kept bugging me so I got fed up.
Maybe she lost interest maybe he's insisting too much and that can be a turn off... maybe she met someone else, maybe she doesn't know what she wants but doesn't want to explain that to him
I've read all of the comments down below & all the more reason why I don't talk to women anymore.
My confidence is fine, it's just going through the same ghosting pattern over & over & over & over again,... it gets bloody well frickin' tiring.
This is what I want to know. I mean I know why, but why not just tell the guy how you feel? He put himself out there. If you have already told him and he continues to contact you, ignoring him is acceptable at that point.
Things are only going well to you , but not her. Her mind could be on other people, or other things
For the same reason some guys ghost girls. They're too cowardly to properly reject someone or breakup
people are entitled to change of opinion i guess. maybe they just realized you aren't the one
Because that's the man perspective. Secretly she was getting bored but she was too much of a coward to come straight. Since leading on and then disappearing. was more convenient
Typically... They have got someone in their vajaja at that moment
I only ghost dudes who creep me out or cross a line.
Because she has 10 other simps begging her for stuff.
We do the same sometimes
Like i did ghost my tinder date and she was texting me for another 20 mins because i wanted to stay home actually and watch tv instead of going out on date with her
I ghosted a guy because he wouldn’t take no for an answer - he didn’t reflect me