GoodManDave | 138 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
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7 mo
My guess: sometimes, the guy might be clueless, mistake “going well” when it isn’t, and they’re genuinely afraid of the guy... but I think that’s rare and depends on the person. I think usually that if it’s a habit, they don’t really care about the guy enough to “let him down kindly... maybe some are afraid of the dude embarrassing them (crying, etc), but I think it’s usually just being rude and not caring about the guy’s time.
Once in a while, they can be late... but if they don’t show, or are extremely late all the time, and don’t call, it’s rude. Shows a certain lack of maturity and planning.
I’ve had many people do this to me (not dates)... there’s a lot of that that goes around here. I’ve learned not to plan anything “special” or at least have super low expectations. I’ll plan things near my gym, or an hour before a meeting that is five minutes away from our meeting spot... or that I’m going alone. If they show up, great. If they don’t, I try not to give them the real estate in my head by being angry with them.
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NineBreaker | 100 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
Yoda
7 mo
I once was talking to this girl who I connected with through a dating app. SJW ignored me for 2 days then texted apologizing for ghosting me for 2 days and that she wasn't interested anymore, and just didn't want to upset me.
You know what I did? I thanked her, sincerely, for actually telling me instead of just blocking me.
It's so rare that someone actually tells you they're not interested directly, that I usually expect to be ghosted. People who do that are pathetic and deserve a digital brand next to their username or phone number designating them a ghoster.
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ragequeen | 79 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
Influencer
7 mo
Girls ghost guys because they never really liked him to begin with and were too afraid to just say so. Then they realize they got too deep and just float away
Yeah that is so selfish though. Usually girls pluck up the courage to ask out girls. Girls should pluck up the courage to turn down the guy. It's horrible to ghost a guy.
@BlueeSheepOwl I don't know and don't think it matters as I would never do either and not except a girl to do either. If you want to regect someone tell them it won't work out don't ever ghoast someone or give a fake number it is sometimes really damaging to people mentally being messed around like that. Even if the person really wants yes... The chance to go out when them they deserve a no. They should never be ghosted or given a fake number as its a horrible thing to do.
A guy just did it to me 1 month ago and we were supposed to be friends, even hang out on dates in the past and even had sex twice, we even know each other for 4 yrs!!!
LuWe22 | 135 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
Guru
7 mo
To chicken to say what's up.
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