Would you get back with your ex if they asked?

[avarvel]

Imagine that they broke up with you and felt sorry about it would you get back with them

Yes

No

Depends

[mindNsoul]

I was never dumbed but I never breakup with someone for no strong reason. I give my whole heart, mind and dedication when I am in a relationship. So if I'm convinced on why I'm leaving him for, then why would I get back?
One particular ex I loved so much and gave almost 9 years of my life to that relationship with full intent to fight for it and stay. But if there is no hope and I had to put myself through a painful breakup, then there is absolutely no way I'm getting back. He asked me many times but I don't play with emotions and I should of done it sooner. lesson learned ever sence.
And if a man ever told me he doesn't want me once I don't understand why I should go back to being with someone who doesn't want me and would leave me again. Never let someone tell you that they don't want you twice.

[mindNsoul]

Thank you 🌹

[yeolsb]

I was hurt again taking them back. It’s not working for me.

[Ephermerallhama]

It depends on how brutal the breakup was. If it was a breakup due to two people seeing themselves in different places (perhaps one has to leave the country for work or academic reasons) then it would be viable to get back if things have more or less remained the same (love for each other and patience to start fresh).

However, if the breakup was due to infidelity, substance abuse or physical violence (or perhaps a toxic nature that was discovered too late) then no. In this case the breakup would be warranted and even if the other person suggests that they've changed it should be taken with a grain of salt (unless they've shown tremendous change that even others have confirmed to be genuine and without ulterior motives).

[Passinggas]

One after three years is still trying to get back. Another is after a year. They ask and I say NO. Just never, go back to an ex. “felt sorry” what does sorry have to do with it because all is fair in love and war. Nothing has changed except I think they just get desperate (not sorry) which would make it worse than before.

[Paris13]

I happen to Have a Roomie Male who is an EX.. Just Family and Friends to the Ends ONLY. xxoo

[aWes0MeNeSs]

No. We're exes because we had irreconcilable differences and didn't work out as a couple. That's very unlikely to change.

[jennifer_bloom]

I voted no because I believe I can find somebody smarter and hotter and nicer

[nortyyee]

you called for me?

[nortyyee]

jk jk 😜

[Incredibro]

Some old broken things are best kept broken. Trying to fix it would only ruin you in the long run cause you'll always go through the same problem. Lifes about moving forward and trying new things and accepting to let go is the first and far most the beginning to self happiness

[xBec14x]

It depends on which ex #1 no cause he has someone and I wouldn’t ever hurt that
#2 NO he cheated and is a jerk

#3 probably not but we are very good friends

#4 yes I want him back more than anything. His depression made him just stop loving AND when he dumped me he even pushed away all of his friends for quite some time.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

I can't say I've never thought about it. But that ship has long ago sailed. There was a window where she could've made amends and won back my heart. She chose not to take that opening. I couldn't re-open it now, after I spent so long "falling out of love" with her.

[Anonymous]

Yes.
I broke up with him, then we stayed best friends but we had a falling out last summer. If he came back, and wanted to be not just friends again but also give dating a new chance i'd go for it. We had problems though, mainly due to his mental health that he wasn't great at caring for properly. People can grow with time though and I always love and care for him.

[Anonymous]

I’m in this situation right now. A guy I dated years ago had to leave the country for work while I also had to move to another area for work. We stayed in touch (admittedly mostly him initiating) and he is making plans to see me again and see where it goes this time once he’s back.

[lowell2593]

No even if it was on good terms. Relationships change you and make you grow so that you can move forward. You could choose to go back, but is that best? Life is short, you may as well plunge into the unknown to find what is truly meant for you.

[R_ūshī]

Hypothetically, nope.

BUT with my actual ex, since we still very much love each other and have problems staying away from each other, I'd gladly say yes if it meant that we can have a future together.

[proteus912]

I did and it was the biggest mistake ever, and the break up the second time hurt even more than the first

[Commander_Red]

If I ever felt sorry about it, it's because I'm naturally a soft soul that slightly feels bad for every negative action I make. But in the end, logic rules out. My ex was an asshole. He deserved to get dropped.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

We're both very glad we got back together. No regrets. Now, we're married. <3

[Shiver]

I did, broke up cuz she moves back to the UK for a while, didn't think she'd be back. When she got back, well, we got in touch right away and we hit it off again, which is very cool.

[Guy1467]

She was really bad to me.
I wouldn't love her or take the relationship seriously.
I would only have sex with her, but in a nasty way.
She would probably like it better.

[NYCstreetPhotog]

Sounds weak, but absolutely, without even thinking about it, but I'm also not naive enough to think it'll ever happen.

[ElissaDido]

We weren't really in a relationship because it was online but yes in a heartbeat, if the distance was to be dealt with.

[DiegoO]

It doesn't mean it wasn't a relationship. If there were strong feelings in between and continuous communication that pretty much makes it real.

[Davis04]

HELL NO!! That asshole broke up with me in the past and that’s where his ass better stay... IN THE MOTHERF’ING PAST!! BOY BYEE😌✌️

[Ripper_E]

My first ex, the chances of me getting back with her are slim to none and even if I did, it would be in the future.
My second ex, I couldn't be with someone whose life means nothing to me

[ECityGirl89]

No reasons with my recent relationship ended in a way where his mothers opinion comes first. I don’t want to have that In my life again.