My boyfriend broke up with me because he “doesn’t want a relationship” and “wants to focus on his career”, is he full of crap?

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We’ve been dating 9 months. I should’ve known from beginning that something was up since it took him more than 6 months to ask me to be his girlfriend. We had a great relationship other than a couple red flags (lying about small things, shady stuff, bad communication). He ended up telling me that he doesn’t want a relationship right now, that he’s just not a relationship type of a guy and that he’d rather put all his focus into his career and money. I was pretty hurt but he said he still would like me to be in his life if I want to, but every time we hang out he tries to treat me like his girlfriend and even gets jealous when I talk about other guys. Am I wasting my time being friends with him and should cut him off? Or could he maybe want me in the future? Or is he just keeping me around and using me? He said he still loves me so much and I know he loves me but I still feel so stupid but I love him so much and don’t want to lose him
My boyfriend broke up with me because he “doesn’t want a relationship” and “wants to focus on his career”, is he full of crap?
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