I caught my ex cheating and now he won’t stop calling me?

[Anonymous]

Prior to his stupid decision we were good. Everything was going well in our relationship no arguments or anything. The day I found out I completely ignored him and did not respond to his text or calls. Yesterday I finally said something and pretty much told him that if that’s who he wants to be with he can I’m good. He’s goes on to saying how much he loves me and never meant for me to find out and how he’s broken about and how the girl means nothing she was just somebody to vent to. This all happened Sunday, yesterday I respond and then didn’t say anything else. He’s been calling me but I haven’t answered then he sends me this...

”Listen idc what anybody says man kree I apologize for real I’m not tryna get back wit u or tryna be sneaky I promise u kree I do love u and I’ll forever think about u we don’t gotta be friends nor talk I know I made a big dumb situation wen I could’ve just kept it real but from the bottom of my heart I’m sorry , no need to text back just know what I had for u was real pleas be good keep being happy we had a good run. Don’t end your life cuz of me I learned from u u learned from me goodnight ♥️

[jshm2]

You're confused.

You mean to say "Prior to his stupid decision we supposedly were good. Everything was going too well in our relationship, no arguments or anything, and I was wilfully ignorant.You seem to be ignorant of the fact that new relationships like new employment need to be examined thoroughly. Just as your first year in a job is probation, and you need to keep both eyes wide open. So it is starting a new relationship. You clearly didn't bother, and he took advantage.

It's your partial fault as much as his. He was probably just following habit, you likely have a shitty taste in men.

[Anonymous]

Hi - it sounds like you guys both have closure and everything’s good...

• You said: “if that’s who [you want] to be with [you] can I’m good.”
• And he said “I apologize... we don’t gotta be friends nor talk... from the bottom of my heart I’m sorry , no need to text back... keep being happy we had a good run. Don’t end your life cuz of me...”

You said that he HAD BEEN calling you but AFTERWARDS he sent you what I would call his: “I‘m sorry, goodbye and be well (closure)” text...

So, I think there’s no problem here, and just move on with your separate lives..

Right?

[Anonymous]

Block him. I'm in the same situation. He was a pathological liar, selfish and a manipulator. I broke up 4 months ago but he still begs, texts and calls me but I've blocked his number. He keeps texting on whatsapp even if I don't reply everyday.

[NO-ONES-EX]

You must stop answering and responding. Let him call till he turns blue in the face or the world ends. Once you truly sever ties, your not obligated to play into the hands of foolishness.

[Asker]

I haven’t answered nor responded

[NO-ONES-EX]

Then your doing good. The world will continue to spin, continue to live without concern for his foolish actions. Don’t ask or wonder why, just live your life.

[Wise4myage]

What part of being and ex girlfriend do you not understand?

[Asker]

What do you mean? I’ve washed my hands but he keeps sending me texts and calling me. I do not answer any of them

[Wise4myage]

Hello, then why haven't you blocked him?