How can he claim that he’s unbothered by me when he has blocked me on every social media and won’t reply to texts?

[Anonymous]

My ex stopped talking to me a while ago, he was ignoring me and then he blocked me out of nowhere, but when he talks to mutual friends he claims to be unbothered by my presence, he even act like nothing ever happend when he see me face to face or when he calls our mutal best friend and im in the backround he’s talking to me and kid around. What is going on?

[Tyrael]

I think the fact he's blocked you and isn't responding is proof that he isn't bothered by you. Let it go and move on, he certainly has.

[Asker]

You don’t understand, i don’t want him. I want nothing to do with him. But it’s weird to me how he talks to me like nothing happed and is sooo friendly when he can’t even be my friend on social media

[Asker]

Also if he wasn’t bothered by me why make sure that im blocked everywhere? Don’t make sence

[Tyrael]

Blocking someone is exactly the right thing to do if you're done with them. Stop getting hung up on this and forget about it. You say you want nothing to do with him but you've clearly put a lot of thought into this.

[Asker]

Because everytime i see him out around mutula friends it bothers me that he act like we are cool, why does he even talk to me?

[Tyrael]

Sounds like he's just keeping up appearances for the sake of your mutual friends. He doesn't want to create an awkward dynamic is all

[Asker]

But it’s already awkward, when we broke up we dicided to stay friends, act normal, but then he started to act strange and blocked me. He made everything awkward

[Anonymous]

Ask him

[Asker]

I have, he won’t tell me, he is deathly afraid of confrontation

[Opinion Owner]

He needs to grow some balls and man up

[Asker]

Yeah definitely