Ex showed up at my house unannounced, What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I’m still in shock and never had this happened to me before so I’m not sure if this Is this something I should’ve be super concerned about or would that be overreacting? I haven’t seen him in months. last time I spoke to him I told him that the relationship isn’t working out, I told him that we could remain friends but I’ve just decided to block him all together because that would be the 3rd time I’ve tried to break it off with him and every time we “remain friends “ he ends up reeling me back In. I should’ve never told he we could remain friend , I only said that to be nice. It’s been almost 3 months since I saw him and he popped up outside my house and wanted to “talk” but I refused because he wanted me to get in his car so we can talk (my whole family was outside thank god) . He wanted to know why I blocked him and asked what did I think of him (while we were dating I guess) the whole thing was just awkward and i didn’t want to make a huge Scene in front of my family so I ended up telling him I’ll unblock him so he can talk on the phone so he can get away from my house.
sorry for the grammar mistakes.

[teamvic]

Well how else was he supposed to get a hold of you you blocked him in everything haha

Of course its gonna be unannounced

But it sounds like he still wants you, just tell him you don't see him like that and you don't want him showing up at your house unnatural again.

[teamvic]

Unannounced

[Asker]

Umm frm a different number or a friend phone etc... I don't know but either way if someone blocks you , wouldn’t you get the hint that they want nothing to do with you anymore?

[teamvic]

I would, but there are a lot of dumb people in this world