Is it true that nothing has changed? I would offer that the person cheating, and getting caught, and a discussion about why all that happened could be all new events. Hopefully. It could work for a 2nd time bc learning can be achieved, could be. Things are always changing so I don't agree that nothing has changed as a statement of fact. It's absolutely true you could be setting yourself up for more risk and I wouldn't fault anyone who chose not to take someone back for cheating. However, all these things can be simultaneously true.
@billbrasky00 Everyone is CAPABLE of changing and when yu are young, you want to believe that people WILL change to make themselves better and to make their relationship with you better. You don't want to believe that your relationship isn't sufficient motivation for the change needed. As you get more experience with relationships, particularly with horribly failed relationships, you will finally accept that most people will NOT change and a second chapter in your relationship with be just like the first, except that the problems will surface much more quickly the second time around.If you want to focus on what is POSSIBLE, you can come to my house this evening and wait with me because it is possible that Martians will land in my back yard tonight. If you want to focus on what is PROBABLE, you will stay home and get some sleep.
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Did it work out in the end?
No, unfortunately. We were just two different people and got married young without really knowing each other.
I would like to she could change but trust is hard to repair with something like that. Its best to move on to someone that won't cheat or doesn't have a cheating past
I personally don't believe in the "one a cheater always a cheater" concept. But I will never trust them again.