If you haven't broken up then your still in a relationship which means it's cheating if you're having sex with someone else especially if you haven't discussed having sex with someone else while "Taking a Break" with your LT partner
My gut would tell me yes its cheating Its not appropriate if your just on a break The whole point is space Not to see who you can lay If you sleep with someone your leading yourself into further confusion Surely
Depends on what terms you set for your break. But as far as i'm concerned if you're already on a break. You've broken up. Tell your partner you're done for certain if you want to go fuck someone else. Make it very clear to them.
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If someone says they want to take a break that tells me they're having serious doubts about the relationship. And i would assume they would find someone else and then officially end it. So it's more or less a break up. I'll put it this way, if a woman wanted to "take a break" with me i'd say she has 2 choices either we work through it or we break up. There is no middle ground. Because if you need to take a break from me something is seriously broken between us.
In black and white the answer is no but when feelings are involved, let’s be honest it NEVER ends well if the two decide to go for round 2 and then finds out someone was with another person.
Kind of depends on the breakup. I have had some where I explicitly said I am not seeing anyone else, I just need to be away for a little while. Some, you just need to see if what you have is worth the reason why you broke up. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
You are broken up so it can't be held against you.
However, kinda cheap n cheezy of you to go out and bang someone when you are suppose to be thinking about the relationship you were just in if you will move forward or not. Its not ment to be a hall pass.
An ex did this to me and the relationship was never the same. I started to make decisions based on i rather then we.
So long story short... we finally broke up and her life is still a train wreck.
It's just using a technicality to excuse it. In reality, the only reason people go "on break" is to sleep around without punishment. It's cheating with extra steps.
I don't know, man. A break is supposed to clear your head and nothing else. Even if it's okay in anyway to sleep around during breaks, it just means you were unsatisfied! Break up properly.
A "break" is usually an excuse people use to temporarily sleep with someone else. I don't take breaks. We're together or not. So yes "on a break" sex is cheating.
It is distasteful at worst. It really all depends how much you care for that person and if they are putting other people off or not. Taking a break from a relationship is hard if that someone you love but it’s hard to be around then sometimes so I suppose being alone is part of resetting what is important, you. Then you’ll realize what comes. :)
A brake implies that in case you decide to get back together you will pick up where you left of. It does not imply that you are in a relationship while "on a break".
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Not really from what I have seen or heard so far.. some girls even think it is cool to have some side action while already being have a boyfriend. but I’m sure if a guy did the same thing he would be seen as an asshole 😂😂
It depends, really. This is something couples must agree on before going on a break because everyone has its own concept. If you want to be free to sleep with someone else while on the break then you should agree on it with your partner.
You need to make the conditions under y’all go on a break clear.. if both parties agreed on seeing other people then no it’s not cheating.. in any other scenario it would be
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If you haven't broken up then your still in a relationship which means it's cheating if you're having sex with someone else especially if you haven't discussed having sex with someone else while "Taking a Break" with your LT partner
My gut would tell me yes its cheating Its not appropriate if your just on a break The whole point is space Not to see who you can lay If you sleep with someone your leading yourself into further confusion Surely
That's the point of a break.
Depends on what terms you set for your break. But as far as i'm concerned if you're already on a break. You've broken up. Tell your partner you're done for certain if you want to go fuck someone else. Make it very clear to them.
If someone says they want to take a break that tells me they're having serious doubts about the relationship. And i would assume they would find someone else and then officially end it. So it's more or less a break up.
I'll put it this way, if a woman wanted to "take a break" with me i'd say she has 2 choices either we work through it or we break up. There is no middle ground. Because if you need to take a break from me something is seriously broken between us.
In black and white the answer is no but when feelings are involved, let’s be honest it NEVER ends well if the two decide to go for round 2 and then finds out someone was with another person.
Kind of depends on the breakup. I have had some where I explicitly said I am not seeing anyone else, I just need to be away for a little while. Some, you just need to see if what you have is worth the reason why you broke up. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
You are broken up so it can't be held against you.
However, kinda cheap n cheezy of you to go out and bang someone when you are suppose to be thinking about the relationship you were just in if you will move forward or not. Its not ment to be a hall pass.
An ex did this to me and the relationship was never the same. I started to make decisions based on i rather then we.
So long story short... we finally broke up and her life is still a train wreck.
It's just using a technicality to excuse it. In reality, the only reason people go "on break" is to sleep around without punishment. It's cheating with extra steps.
Exactly this, the OP is too cowardly to totally break up because she fears losing the other guy... but wants the freedom to fuck somebody else.
Absolutely no respect nor sympathy will be given to this sloot.
No but if you slept around 5 seconds after a break started it's not a good sign, is it?
I don't know, man. A break is supposed to clear your head and nothing else. Even if it's okay in anyway to sleep around during breaks, it just means you were unsatisfied! Break up properly.
A "break" is usually an excuse people use to temporarily sleep with someone else.
I don't take breaks. We're together or not.
So yes "on a break" sex is cheating.
It is distasteful at worst. It really all depends how much you care for that person and if they are putting other people off or not. Taking a break from a relationship is hard if that someone you love but it’s hard to be around then sometimes so I suppose being alone is part of resetting what is important, you. Then you’ll realize what comes. :)
A brake implies that in case you decide to get back together you will pick up where you left of. It does not imply that you are in a relationship while "on a break".
Not really from what I have seen or heard so far.. some girls even think it is cool to have some side action while already being have a boyfriend.
but I’m sure if a guy did the same thing he would be seen as an asshole 😂😂
It depends, really. This is something couples must agree on before going on a break because everyone has its own concept. If you want to be free to sleep with someone else while on the break then you should agree on it with your partner.
You need to make the conditions under y’all go on a break clear.. if both parties agreed on seeing other people then no it’s not cheating.. in any other scenario it would be
Is it still considered stealing if you take from a job, your no longer employed with?
If you are still in relationship and don't agree to terms in which you can sleep with other people, then yes, you are cheating.
unless you said when you were about to take the break that you want to leave them but maybe get together again, it is cheating.