Dating needs to be a discernment towards marriage, especially with the person you are dating. There should be an open conversation through out. If I was ready and felt she was and I asked and she said no, then that conversation has to be had about it soon afterwords in order to move forward.
I'd be curious to hear why and what they thought. Unfortunately it might be a very vague reply and stop me if I'm wrong but asking a girl for when I can ask her again would only make her more vague and uncomfortable. It's like, "but when" "I don't know right now and I might not ever know, I just don't feel like this is where I want the relationship to go right now and I don't know when I'll ever be ready..." With a response like that... I don't know what to do with that 🤔 🤨
That's a tough one to come back from. I guess it depends on why she said no. Could it be she didn't like the ring? She thinks it's too soon? Or she's a terrible person... just kidding. The relationship would have to be pretty damn solid to get past that though.
No, I mean if I love hime enough to want to spend the rest of my life with him, why on earth would I break up just because he wasn’t really ready to get married? That seems like cutting off you nose to spite your gigantic ego! I’ve never understood why people do that? “I love you so much, I want to spend the rest of my life with you, have children together, and make a future for ourselves… what? No! Well fuck you, I never want to see you again, asshole!” Phewww dodged a bullet there!
Depends on what type of no. If no as I’m not ever then I’m out. If it’s a no we need to talk about that more then I’m open to see what she has to say. I’d leave if I had to go rope the moon or something. I’d also leave if I publicly proposed and she ran away. I’d be curious and have questions, but ultimately think she ran out the relationship.
I think it would depend on the reason why they said no. Are there extenuating circumstances? Maybe something is going on with them that you haven’t discussed yet... and it might be something that prevents it now but not later. It’s something to talk about before pulling away and breaking things off. Communication is key.
I likely would be the one proposing, but if I did, and he said no, it's over.
It means the relationship is asymetrical, and those are always unhealthy unless it is a parent/child, mentor/student type of relationship that is asymetrical by design.
No because it's not really that big of a deal. I just proposed go down to the 7-Eleven and get a Slurpee that's all. we don't need to break up just because of that
Lol no that's one thing I've never been able to do is have a girl pay for something ,, if I'm asking out then I'm paying for both ,, and even when I don't ask out I'm paying for both ,
Depends. Did I propose too early? Are they willing to accept if we wait a few years? Or do they simply not want to marry me? If it's the latter, then yes, I would leave them. If it's one of the other two, I'd understand and stay with them.
It would entirely depend on the relationship, where I wanted my life to head to, if she was saying no, or no way ever. If I were looking for marriage, and if she said adamantly no, I would move on.
Well, I might wait around for while but don't know for sure how long, If they said no to one proposal makes me wonder if they will say yes to any future proposals, It would upset me for sure
Depends on how early in the relationship. I feel like a promise ring should be first. Then ask to marry after a few years. If u guys talk and u know she's not ready why ask. If u know she's ready and she says no. I'd b like ok bye.
The girl will bring up the idea of marriage so if you're asking and she hasn't hinted yet then that's the risk you take. I don't think it's a reason to break up though. Just means they aren't ready yet.
It's easy to say looking in from the outside. I won't ever get married. It's a fucking joke these days. It's kind of like 3 months after a breakup it's usually pretty clear where you went wrong even if you never got an answer becaise now you aren't stressed and have had time to think about it.
Find out first why she declined. Sometimes it is just a matter of she just isn't ready yet. A proper Women will just break it off for any other reason. Either you love them and want to marry them or you don't which insinuates there is nothing there.
I would never propose seeing as I'm agaisnt the idea of marriage.
But if I ever went mad and did it and got rejected I'll need a pretty legitimate reason why not otherwise there's no point in staying when we each want something different
Yes, I would. It would end our relationship. If she said No, the whole point of our relationship would be lost because it would demonstrate our incompatibility.
I don't agree to that, if there's a No ask what caused the NO. If it is compatiblity then is it workable, if not then move on. Communication is the key, each party would know why marriage is a yes or no with their partner.
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Dating needs to be a discernment towards marriage, especially with the person you are dating. There should be an open conversation through out. If I was ready and felt she was and I asked and she said no, then that conversation has to be had about it soon afterwords in order to move forward.
I agree discussing is key
I'd be curious to hear why and what they thought. Unfortunately it might be a very vague reply and stop me if I'm wrong but asking a girl for when I can ask her again would only make her more vague and uncomfortable. It's like, "but when" "I don't know right now and I might not ever know, I just don't feel like this is where I want the relationship to go right now and I don't know when I'll ever be ready..." With a response like that... I don't know what to do with that 🤔 🤨
That's a tough one to come back from. I guess it depends on why she said no. Could it be she didn't like the ring? She thinks it's too soon? Or she's a terrible person... just kidding. The relationship would have to be pretty damn solid to get past that though.
I would agree.
No, I mean if I love hime enough to want to spend the rest of my life with him, why on earth would I break up just because he wasn’t really ready to get married? That seems like cutting off you nose to spite your gigantic ego! I’ve never understood why people do that? “I love you so much, I want to spend the rest of my life with you, have children together, and make a future for ourselves… what? No! Well fuck you, I never want to see you again, asshole!” Phewww dodged a bullet there!
Is it not yet or not you? I think that's the difference. It's also different when you are older.
Depends on what type of no. If no as I’m not ever then I’m out. If it’s a no we need to talk about that more then I’m open to see what she has to say. I’d leave if I had to go rope the moon or something. I’d also leave if I publicly proposed and she ran away. I’d be curious and have questions, but ultimately think she ran out the relationship.
Nice answer
I think it would depend on the reason why they said no. Are there extenuating circumstances? Maybe something is going on with them that you haven’t discussed yet... and it might be something that prevents it now but not later. It’s something to talk about before pulling away and breaking things off. Communication is key.
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I likely would be the one proposing, but if I did, and he said no, it's over.
It means the relationship is asymetrical, and those are always unhealthy unless it is a parent/child, mentor/student type of relationship that is asymetrical by design.
Maybe, depends on how much I like them and how they reject me
If things go badly I'll set about swapping the rock for a Rolex
If things go okay put the ring away for a few months and roll the dice again
Like your answer👍 but rolex 🤔🤣
Yeah if I get bored it's easy to liquidate
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No because it's not really that big of a deal. I just proposed go down to the 7-Eleven and get a Slurpee that's all. we don't need to break up just because of that
😂😂😂 but who pays for the slurpee🤔🤣
Ummm, oh damn,, hold on
Lolol dutch treat😂 or if she turned down the proposal, guess the least she could do is buy you a slurpee 🤣
Lol no that's one thing I've never been able to do is have a girl pay for something ,, if I'm asking out then I'm paying for both ,, and even when I don't ask out I'm paying for both ,
Even a slurpee? She turned down your proposal man, let her but you a slurpee, hell she should at least offer a whopper meal🤣
Lmao i hate fast food I would rather just cook something
Steak sounds good lolol
Yes you are reading my mind that's what I was thinking I'd like to have a barbecue big potatoes big salad big artichoke I think I'm hungry LOL
You just made me hungry... When's dinner lolol
Damn I know huh it's only 1,17 and there was a big thunderstorm I think I might as well just start cooking something right now LOL
Depends. Did I propose too early? Are they willing to accept if we wait a few years? Or do they simply not want to marry me? If it's the latter, then yes, I would leave them. If it's one of the other two, I'd understand and stay with them.
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It would entirely depend on the relationship, where I wanted my life to head to, if she was saying no, or no way ever. If I were looking for marriage, and if she said adamantly no, I would move on.
That's understandable
This question has already been asked. (But it's okay; you probably didn't know.)
If she says "not yet", I would not break up with her.
If she says "No", I will absolutely break up with her. (What else is there to do?)
Well, I might wait around for while but don't know for sure how long, If they said no to one proposal makes me wonder if they will say yes to any future proposals, It would upset me for sure
That's understandable
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Depends on how early in the relationship. I feel like a promise ring should be first. Then ask to marry after a few years. If u guys talk and u know she's not ready why ask. If u know she's ready and she says no. I'd b like ok bye.
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The girl will bring up the idea of marriage so if you're asking and she hasn't hinted yet then that's the risk you take. I don't think it's a reason to break up though. Just means they aren't ready yet.
That's nice you say that. Some guys I don't think could get past the no
It's easy to say looking in from the outside. I won't ever get married. It's a fucking joke these days. It's kind of like 3 months after a breakup it's usually pretty clear where you went wrong even if you never got an answer becaise now you aren't stressed and have had time to think about it.
It all depends on how long we have been together and her reasons for not accepting.
I would not just break up willinily just like that.
That's very mature of you
Find out first why she declined. Sometimes it is just a matter of she just isn't ready yet. A proper Women will just break it off for any other reason. Either you love them and want to marry them or you don't which insinuates there is nothing there.
I would never propose seeing as I'm agaisnt the idea of marriage.
But if I ever went mad and did it and got rejected I'll need a pretty legitimate reason why not otherwise there's no point in staying when we each want something different
I would. The entire goal for the individual was to marry said person. The goal has been accomplished and the answer is "No".
Was your cell phone turned on during the proposal
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No, I've never experience a proposal. I was just answering the question.
Maybe you dodged a bullet
You mean the goal has failed.
@Jamie05rhs "Yes" thank you... He dated her, made her his girlfriend and tried to succeed for her to be his wife and failed.
Yes.
(You're welcome.)
Yes, I would. It would end our relationship. If she said No, the whole point of our relationship would be lost because it would demonstrate our incompatibility.
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I don't agree to that, if there's a No ask what caused the NO. If it is compatiblity then is it workable, if not then move on. Communication is the key, each party would know why marriage is a yes or no with their partner.