Even if YOU did the Breaking Up, Would YOU keep VENTING to Them?

[Paris13]

***If So, Has it Helped to Form a Closure for You? xx

[Leapfrog00]

I would think that would just make it harder to move on. Of course, though, it depends on the circumstances of the breakup. If her and I broke up because she cheated or committed some atrocious act, it would not be wise to even continue making contact, let alone venting to this person.

If we left on good terms, like deciding we were better off as friends instead of a couple, I don't see anything wrong with venting to this person then. Of course, if one of us formed an attachment to the other one, then that might pose as a problem. So yeah, depends on the situation.

[Paris13]

This ONE I Broke up with is the ONL EVER ONE Not Getting Along with. lolxx

[Leapfrog00]

You know, sometimes that happens. Sometimes people just aren't compatible. Or it might not be you. It might be them. Sometimes people bring out the worst in us and it makes it impossible to get along with them. I've gotten along with most of the girls I've dated, but when it seems like ones I later found out was cheating, they were the ones I didn't get along with. I wouldn't let it bother you. The next person that comes along might be better for you. Maybe there will be better communication between you.

[smilelots]

No I would do that with a good friend and move on from the relationship as fast as I could.. but we are all different right so to each there own..

[Paris13]

Thanks, Dear. This Helped. xxoo

[Aerissa_Jade]

I've had ex's that became good friends, we set each other up on dates with friends, etc... but it really depends on why you broke up and how well you get along.

If it was a cheater, nope... never going to talk to them again.

I probably would not vent to an ex though, unless we were on great terms and it was a topic that he could understand.

I would limit it though to that, not to everything.

[Paris13]

I see a Master. xxoo

[mobiusforniner]

@Paris13 im a hopeless romantic. And so is she. We like the way it hurts.

[mobiusforniner]

Oops I meant that for your response to my comment...

[Paris13]

@mobiusforniner lol Okay. xxoo

[Ms_Facesitter]

I usually don't talk to him anymore, at all. I vent to my friends.

[Paris13]

Nice idea. xx

[OlderAndWiser]

Breaking up should mean no more contact, unless you have children together.

[Paris13]

Or can Really Get Along. xx

[OlderAndWiser]

Even if you can get along, remaining in contact will be a disincentive for the dumpee to move forward, and it will make it more difficult for the dumper to establish a new relationship.

[AviatorTom]

Nope, an ex is done, over, finito

[Paris13]

Ah, No Venting then. xx

[OfMiceandMen]

I rarely vent to anyone I am with. Once I leave work, I turn that switch off, etc. If it is a family thing, then why stress her out about it? So, the answer is no, I would not continue venting to that person after breaking-up as I typically never did in the first place.

[Paris13]

Okay, Taking a Break in Canada. lolxx

[OfMiceandMen]

Yup.

[RobT312]

I have had a few amicable breakups…we liked each other just not compatible. I renained friends in that case. I have had a few nasty ones and cut contact 100% …after speaking my peace during the breakup it was over

[Paris13]

Nice. xx

[Justmeagain1]

Not at all , my business and my good/bad in between is my own. When a person ceases being your partner, they/you have actively chosen to not support each other on an emotional level.

[Paris13]

Nice. xx

[mb120101]

I got a pity text from my ex of two years ago last night actually. She broke up with me and when I move on she sends me an emotional text at 2am two years later. Fuck off

[Paris13]

lol!!! That's the Good Spirit. xx

[mb120101]

Bitch messages me saying she's drunk and she doesn't want to be with me but feels bad. Who tf sends that to their ex years later 😂

[Paris13]

lol REBOUND REASON. lol!!! xxoo

[Lynx122]

No that's very selfish and rude I'd say. I broke up with you but I want you to still listen to my problems and care about me. I wouldn't do that.

[Paris13]

Um, Resentful Dumper Was Me. lolxx

[Lynx122]

Lol XD If I was resentful I would want even less to do with this person that's usually how I handle things.

[Adam1978]

No I don't vent about things that isn't relevant for the person in question. So relationship over, there is nothing left to vent about.

[Paris13]

I see. xx

[Paradisepup36390]

I loved somebody once, and I was not the one to do the breaking up. But my former partner was disinterested in venting to me after we broke up. I haven't spoken to her in almost 6 years.

[Paris13]

Welcome to Gag Town and Best of Luck. xx

[Paradisepup36390]

Thank you.

[Paris13]

Welcome. xx

[mobiusforniner]

I dunno. I've had ex's I maintained limited contact with. But from experience, it's better you don't.

[Paris13]

But it is a Closure. lolxx

[humanearth]

Nope, I cut off all ties with them. Otherwise you still have feelings for them and you want to keep the door open to get back together

[Paris13]

In This Case... Okay. xx

[RavVid]

I more think carefully after a few warnings than execute and make no contact afterwards.

[Paris13]

He must Be Forgiving to Me? lolxx

[RavVid]

Maybe you are easy to forgive. Some girls are easier to forgive than other girls

[Britney04]

No, it's over. You cease to exist and right to vent when I’m done then I done with them. I seen from my sister what happens if you don’t break it off when your done.

[Paris13]

It can Go On and On... xx

[douride2]

No when it's over it's done with. I move on.

[Paris13]

Okay then. xx

[Jamie05rhs]

No. You get the venting out before you break up. Get it all done at once.

[Paris13]

Wow!!! xx

[Likes2drive]

Was done with all that afterwards, I only talk to her because of the kids once in a while

[Paris13]

Good Analogy, Big Guy. xx

[KrakenAttackin]

Keep venting to him AFTER the breakup? Hell-to-the-no, you lost the bitching privileges.

[Paris13]

YIKES!!! Now you Tell Me. lolxx

[shades777]

No thats not healthy, breaking up includes moving on and letting go.

[Paris13]

Maybe Yes, Healthier. xx

[single852]

If i did the breaking up, i wouldn't vent then lol.

[Paris13]

Welcome to Gag Town and Best of Luck. xx

[single852]

Thank you very much, same for you.

[invalid1]

Well, men/women who want to get close to you knowing you! Careful teenagers! They just want to use you and abuse you socially. Again! Be careful!
Don't trust him/her because you think they have the potential of sex or commitment.