Would you help your ex if they needed your help if you know that you're the only one who could help him or her?

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SLRK3 · Accepted Answer

Yes, I use to do that with my ex husband all the time. Even when it came to girls. It use to kill me but I did it because I loved him. No mate what the cause was I did it because I have a heart. I am not a cold hearted soulless bitch. We had our problems and even with my other exes, we have had our issues, but that doesn't mean that I want the less for them. I want them to not succeed. If they need me for any reason they can cause them to do better in life, I would be there to support them and help them out as I can. 🤗

TacosRAwesome · Accepted Answer

I don't have any skillset that others don't have and if I did well they can pay up like everyone else.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I did this already before. After I helped (literally sent her money for my rent and food), she blocked me on everything so she wouldn't have to honour the promise to pay me back before I needed the cash. This was a very unpleasant lesson in how some people take advantage of kindness.

If she spontaneously appeared looking for help again. I would laugh at her as I said no.

humpbackjack · Accepted Answer

Sure why not? Why can’t a person get along with there ex? I mean you had to think they were a descent enough person to get into a relationship with them so they should make a descent friend. You just need to think of it like this. Not every relationship is meant to be so you shouldn’t hold a grudge over whatever split you guys up. So of course I’d help

Pinay_ako · Answer

I don’t hold grudge unless you owe me a lot of money. Lol. But if my ex ever needs my help, who am I to say no? I loved that person once upon a time

LisaRaven · Answer

My first ex , yes, without a second thought. We mainly parted because he had to move.

The other one after him, no. He made it clear when dumped him for cheating on me that he didn't like me for anything other than what was between my legs and I wasn't letting him have that fast enough so he was trying to get it from another girl while still trying to stay with me too hoping one of us would let him.

Of course she dumped him too without him getting either of us when it all came out. Me and he a friends now ironically.

ZackBan · Answer

It's a pretty short list if at all a list when it comes to things "only I can help with"

Like seriously what's something other people cannot do. (All I can think about is moving a body we burried in the garden)

So if only I can help I would because that's the decent thing to do.
Not to mention that as of now all my exes ended things on good terms with me

qwert1234 · Answer

If any of my ex asks for my help - I would try to help them if I can, even the one who cheated on me. Ofcourse, it still depends on the help needed.

Example: if one is trying to borrow $5000 and I know for a fact that she cannot afford to pay it back, I'll negotiate on a lower value that I am prepared to lose.

For me, it's not showing them like "haha look who is back?". For me it's just the human way to do it.

libsaretards · Answer

Depends on how bad the need is. As a Christian I will ALWAYS help someone where I can if the need is great enough and if I have the means to help. This would even apply to my worst enemy. However, it better be a real need and I will NOT do it if it hurts anything I have going on in life.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Of course I would. Just because she and I aren't dating doesn't mean I don't care about her and wish her well. That being said, there's definitely some animosity there, so I'd prefer that we didn't interact. I wish her nothing but happiness, but I wish it from afar.

Anonymous · Answer

If we are still friends I'd always help where I can. If we did not stay friends it would really matter what it is. If it is something only I could help with I can only come up with situations where it would be using me, there should really be someone else in his life that can help him.

backblueblack22 · Answer

Depends on who broke with who. Depends if there is an understanding that “helping” doesn’t mean getting back together. Depends on what they need help for.

Personally I have never had an ex treat me respectfully after a break up. Ever. Whether it it was her idea or my idea to split i was usually treated lower than pond scum. They wouldn’t hold my hand to keep me from falling off a cliff.

Passion_Devil · Answer

If I am able to I think I would. But one ex was trouble. If THAT guy came for help, I want him crawling on the floor, on his knees, begging. In front of my boyfriend. If he really needs the help, on his knees he goes

Anonymous · Answer

I hold no Ill will towards any of my exes, most of them I'm still friends with. This may be because we have a discussion about how to properly and respectfully break up with someone early on in the relationship... We always agree that most relationships don't succeed and while we hope it does, we want to remain friend if it doesn't... as a result, I'd bend over backwards for any of them.

altgirl14 · Answer

I would! Unless it was something like really bad why we broke up or something I just try to be a nice person Even if I never smile in person haha

Prezzi3 · Answer

I would help my ex because even though we are not romantically or platonically involved, I still care about/ respect them as a person.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yeah I get on well with my ex wife and we help each other out. same wiry couple ex gf’s dont matter who they are if you can help

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

Yes. I have no hard feelings for my ex. We just weren't right as a couple, but he's not a bad guy. I'd help him if he needed it and it was something I could do

MysticDevice · Answer

Depends on the ex and depends on the situation. If we parted on good terms then yeah I probably would.

If we parted on bad terms and she needed help for a situation she brought on herself? Ha! Nope. Sorry not sorry lol.

EmmaMary · Answer

Naturally I would consider it, however it would all depend on circumstances involved.

nice-girl · Answer

I voted "for results". I would help them after first consulting my current partner and if they agreed. And if I was single.

NathanDavis · Answer

of course... I will always try my best to help my friends... which is what they are, nowadays... friends rather than exes

Janessa2021 · Answer

Fuck no cuz when I was the only one that helped him he treated me like shit, disrespected me , threatened me , lied constantly and stole from me so fuck that bitch and person that raised him. He most definitely on his own.

anniisa97 · Answer

Only if its a life-or-death situation, I'm not getting involved in any criminal stuff for anyone.

Jake99999 · Answer

It depends on what she needed help with. Might be yes, might be no.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Yes ok course but it would depend on what it is that she needs help with.

Mavie · Answer

yeah id help but not because he is my ex id help because im a good human and i help those who are in need for my help

J2ohhhhh · Answer

If it's like life and death or was something with their children yeah, otherwise no.

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

Sadly, what they did to me, I had to cut them off completely. So we don't talk or communicate at all.

CringeKing8228 · Answer

Depends on if we are still on good terms or not and what kind of help is needed

douride2 · Answer

For the most part no. After all they are exes for a good reason.

Drag254 · Answer

We might have our reason for being apart but that can never break our bond, after all, we r friends at least.

Anonymous · Answer

Humanity still live.. Otherwise push into the well

admles · Answer

After what she did to me, I wouldn't piss on her if she was on fire.

Caliguy88 · Answer

I’ve helped ex’s. I’d help anyone I could if they needed it.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't help because they didn't help at the first place

Poppykate · Answer

Yes. Life passes in a blink of an eye, and it’s too short to hold grudges or past hurts and whatnot.

carpentiero · Answer

If there once was real love something rest's even after separation.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe if we had broken up on better terms. I wouldn't give that bitch 50 cents.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes but it depends on how our relations are nowadays

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

It's depends on which kind of help ex need.

donnny2367764 · Answer

No. As a Matter of fact, you should block his ass forever

Alyssa11 · Answer

LOL NO (ps a Scorpio).

sew1980b · Answer

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mooky06 · Answer

Depends what it is for.

exitseven · Answer

I sure would goddam it.

jenna15 · Answer

yes of course you can't be petty

Rippersavage · Answer

I would help all my exes except for one of them

misterCage4 · Answer

If its nothing related to money then sure

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Yes I would. All but one of them.

Djaay · Answer

If that was so true , why are you two ex's?

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Ir would mostly depend on WHY they are my "ex."

alance99 · Answer

Depends on how things ended with her

bigpauly · Answer

If it was for something important I would

J9inva · Answer

Yes. My ex and I remained friends.

Agape93 · Answer

Depends on the ex

Anonymous · Answer

nope she should have sucked dick better

karaspara · Answer

Yes more than likely

Ironic_Method · Answer

I would and I have.

YesICan · Answer

Yeah sure, why not.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Yes. 🦚🦚🌊🌊🐉

dudeinohio · Answer

Yeah absolutely

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

Nope

BigManSAB · Answer

Depends on which ex

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