Would you help a friend break up with their partner if they asked you to?

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Help in anyway that they need. Sometimes to just be there when they do it.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

Yes, I asked my friend to come with me to break up with a guy. He was playing basketball with his friends and I asked to talk to him in private coz I don’t like the idea of him coming to my house unannounced even tho I clearly told him we’re done! I said to him for the last time, please we are over and I don’t want to see you again. Please respect that and I wish you the best. Goodbye. He was speechless but I left anyways. He cheated on me after 3 years being together so he doesn’t deserve to say shit to me coz I’m done!

HollyK21 · Accepted Answer

If it were something like she was afraid of him or he was abusive, then sure, I don’t mind going for support. But if it’s just in general then I don’t feel it’s appropriate for me to be there. At least not present during the breakup, because that’s between them. I don’t mind waiting out in the car or something.

libsaretards · Accepted Answer

Yes I would. Women are crazy and a false accusation can easily ruin his life. Some women act crazy at the moment of a breakup and say/do things that cannot be taken back. I would be somewhere nearby to witness things, especially if she is known to be crazy/over-emotional/abusive. Due to the nature of how the world is now, a man CANNOT risk just trusting women to do the right thing. Most women would do the right thing, but it only takes ONE to fuck everything up.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

this could get all kinds of sketchy... lmao

first... they would have to tell me the details about it, and then I would decided if I could ever get involved or not

can I drive you to the scene and then get you back, sure... I could

do you want me to serenade them at midnight with one of the most petty and cruel break up songs so she finds out this way that you're done with them? no... I won't do that ever again lmao

Anonymous · Answer

One of the perks of having a transgender pro domme for a bestie... He tried to kill my best friend (she wouldn't let me return the favor on her behalf, despite the cops doing nothing) but when it came time to move her out, I went ahead of her by about 15 mins and informed him that it was over between them and if he were there when she arrives that we would go into the other room and "talk" while she moved things into the UHAUL by herself.

He tried getting in my face for a minute but when that didn't work he just left in a huff... He still doesn't like me, can't imagine why...

MoniqueTLC · Answer

As support, 100%. I wouldn't necessarily want to get involved in the actual break up because that's a very personal, intimate situation between a couple. But to help with the aftermath, of course.

Nash62826 · Answer

If I hated the guy enough then y tf not. I'd get a whole parade and document the moment to show her, if he was a good guy and she was at fault absolutely no, she on her own.

Sixgunsound · Answer

I’m not sure I could respect someone who is that weak that they need help telling someone off enough to stay friends with them for very long. And that’s male or female.

bubblegunnn · Answer

Ofc i always be there for my besties after their breakups.. i sometimes ask them to hangout at mall or cafe to have fun

dustybiker · Answer

No. Life forces us to do things we don’t want to do. Coddling doesn’t help anyone gain strength.

MementoMori_ · Answer

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Jenny-Marie · Answer

No, it would be a recipe for disaster. However, I did once help a friend after she had ended her relationship. I took her to her flat and helped retrieve all her stuff, important because her boyfriend had started to verbally abuse her.

VanillaSalt · Answer

Do it yourself fucking grow up and tell the truth… fucking cowards.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Hell no. Never get involved in anyone else's problems

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

If she has good reasons, yes I'll be there to comfort her when it's all said and done.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No, that would be disrespectful, you have to do that yourself.

Blackcupcake · Answer

of course and I have done that many times in the past

JaxiCats · Answer

They are on their own. I’ve had this happen to me before.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

If the person was abusive sure otherwise its not my business

Anonymous · Answer

no, that's not my fucking problem. also, they need to act like an adult.

Juxtapose · Answer

Maybe, it depends if I feel like they're being silly or not.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

I’d try to supportive they needed me to be

Midgetmcwidget · Answer

Nope they can do their own dirty work

LilyFlorisa · Answer

If my freind not happy, i will help

PeteBy · Answer

Absolutely not.

swettannie · Answer

Dépend how close I am to that friend

Zolly99999 · Answer

Depends on the situation..

Iron_Man · Answer

No way

TacticalLizard · Answer

Yeah

captainggaming · Answer

No way.

eagle1951 · Answer

no way

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