Guys, The other woman?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has a best friend woman that calls and texts him and vice versa. This has went on for 10 months and has been one cause with our four break ups we have went through. The third broke we got back together I sent her a message … a nice message saying that I would like her to respect our relationship and back off … that he has a girlfriend and it’s inappropriate for this calling when she is bored or checking up on him stuff. That’s my job to check up on him. Or to call about a question on what I should buy. So after I sent her the message saying how I felt about it all … she got mad sending him the message I sent her and my boyfriend flipped out and started yelling at me saying that’s not my place. Worried about loosing her from it. So we broke up and then got back together a week later and I asked him nicely if he would please send her a text saying that our relationship will be respected and I will come first and the contact should vanish. He replies saying ok , good luck … 6 days went by and she must of got mad that my boyfriend has not called her or messaged her and she deleted him off fb. Now he is all upset saying I caused him in loosing his best friend. I didn’t cause that. I feel like she is valued more over me and what I want. I feel like she knows him and dis that up set him so he would reach out 2 her. She is mad that we got back together because he told her he wouldn’t with me after our third break up. I do not feel important to his life. He is so worried about loosing her and not so much us. Red flag?

[Sam_The_Savage]

You're smart enough to understand what is going on. Why you want to stay in relationship were you come 2nd and other girl first? No self-respect?

[Asker]

He keeps calling me jealous and they are just friends. I feel so hurt by what has went on.

[Sam_The_Savage]

If this relationship giving you hurt & pain. Than dear what kind of relationship is this?

Baby why can't you dump him?

[Asker]

Idk… why is it so hard for him 2 let her go? Why did she get mad and delete him off fb if they are just friends?

[Sam_The_Savage]

Why is it so hard for you 2 let him go?

They are not friends.
Deep inside of you know that.

[Asker]

They don’t hang out he said. That they are only friends and have been through a lot together. I don’t see why she got mad and deleted him off because he hasn’t contacted her and I made him send that message.

[iBeowulf]

We get what we deserve

[Asker]

What do you mean by that?

[iBeowulf]

We're in an environment that favors polyamory over monogamy duebto. a century of feminist laws that discriminate against women. He's just a random simp but even they're catching on.

[iBeowulf]

* due to
*discriminate against men

[Asker]

So what he is doing is ok then?

[iBeowulf]

In any committed relationship women set the rules, but outside of that, men retain control. He's a fool for having a female friend and a fool for having a girlfriend. I hope you two rip him apart and all end up alone. Simps learn the hard way.