I mean, am I so old-fashioned or have such an obsolete pov that finding a "favorite person" who wants to be with only one person is a (more or less) extinct way to live?
Maybe I'm just a broken spirit in an aging body that never had an opportunity to know what it feels like to be truly loved by someone.
I'm just really going through some confusing things right now, and could use some logic to help set me straight.
Or maybe I gotta just come to terms with the likeliness that I'll just be a crazy old cat lady who's lived her entire life alone and will die alone, too.
Yeah, I know I sound like a sad sap of a sapien, all whinin' n cryin' about woe is me, but I'm dead serious about understanding why people have to hurt somebody who just wanted to love n be loved.
I don't want sympathy, or to be patronized n all that, I just want to understand.
Maybe all this pain is my fault and I did something to deserve it. If that's it, I wanna know where I fucked it all up.
I don't know, maybe this isn't the right forum to pose such a query, but it's a start.
Why does it seem that people don't value an exclusively monogamous relationship anymore?
I want a monogamous, permanent relationship. I just can't find a woman who shares my interests and hobbies that also does (and is within my age group, and is in the united states, and is single).
Everytime I find someone who likes the hobbies and interests I like, she just wants hookups (which I'm not even willing to try). I have no issues attracting female atttention, but all of them are sluts, pretty sluts, but still sluts, and I won't touch one of those with a ten foot pole.
It's gotten so bad that I was contemplating buying a sex robot, and just having friends for company instead of a relationship, and never having sex with anyone or having any actual relationship, because to me, hookups are just sex dolls with pregnancy and std risks, because when you remove mental connection, thats all thats left.
It's not what I want, but it's better than casual sex, accidental pregnancy, and going through a divorce. I don;t understand what happened tbh, we having dating apps and sites to find the perfect match from anywhere, and people for whatever reason use them to find one night stands and fuck buddies instead.
I wish there was a site than banned people who didn't want something serious.
feminists are pushing this so that women don't get married until they are much much older and they stay in the workforce longer. They don't care about anything but attaining power
Ah, ok. Yes, a breakdown of sorts. And thank you. Even tho I just don't want any more pain, my idiot ass still has a glimmer of hope for the next asshat to snuff out.
