When I get a divorce she absolutely hated me because I said goodbye and she did everything in her power to try to fuck me up and in so many ways I had to bite my tongue because because I had a son that I wanted to see and I needed to teach him how two handled himself if anything like this ever happened with him it was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do my ex-wife we talk crap about me to my son all the time and I would tell her to stop just please stop you don't understand what you're doing you think you're putting me down you think you're making me look like the bad guy because all of your lies but the truth is going to come out some day and when it does it's not going to be from me it's going to be from your parents it's going to be from your brother and sister it's going to be from your friends and my son is going to hate your guts for because the truth will come out so please stop. And of course she didn't listen it took him until he was 17 years old to snap but he came to me and asked me everything went on and I told him I would tell him the first go ask your grandma your grandpa. Your uncle on both sides and I said when you asked him something just ask them to please be 100% honest and that's exactly what they did so then I had to keep him calm and I had to teach him again who did the when things like this happen in your life he wanted to know why I wasn't angry why I was it livid why I wasn't pissed off and I told him I was but there's a way to handle it flying off the handle is it going to solve anything it's done it's over with it was done and over with long time ago and you need to let it go because it was between your mom and I. He said he knew that that he put me through hell and I said yes or no and he says can you still talk to her I said I try not to LOL but yeah is she called me I would talk to her especially if my kid was around but other than that it was a nightmare but I didn't treat it as one. Because my kid was too important and still is did I went to hell
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I would like to believe that it if it happened... it would be in good terms
and if for some weird, rare, strange reason it was nightmarish (which I really doubt would the case) then I would not want to do anything with it... I would let the lawyers handle all of it and just yes to whatever she wants, take all the money, properties whatever... I would not care, just end it and bye... because I would never allow myself to be in a position in which I hated someone, especially someone I loved
money, comes and goes and I could make it all over again, but my sanity, that one has no price lol
but I really don't know, I am just guessing here... never been married so I've never been divorced
We were amicable for several years. People couldn’t understand why we still spoke or got along. I mean, last year he invited me to his birthday BBQ. For some reason though, he's flipped, and became nasty and rude. He constantly bad mouths me behind my back, and even when I need to talk to him about one of the children, he’s rude, dismissive and argumentative. I think he’s unwell.
I suppose it depends on circumstances and people who participate in a divorce. People who cheat in marriage shouldn't expect any mercy and forgiveness, this is sure. However it's not the only reason why people divorce and this can be a process with lot of negative emotions and hatred.
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Then there is the man who demanded that he get the proceeds from the sale of his sport car in a settlement. His ex sold it for FIVE DOLLARS, and that is what he got! She got the mine, and he got the shaft. but I digress - - -
While not a divorce, when my girlfriend prior to meeting my (to be) wife and I split up, it was cool. We are still friends, on Facebook, exchange Christmas cards and that stuff.Hell no. You want me to be nice to someone that abandons me and rips my heart in two? FUCK that!
You have the right to leave anytime you wish up until the wedding. With absolutely no hard feelings whatsoever. But if you marry me, you better mean it.I am divorced and it was fine, hardest part was dealing with lawyers who wanted to screw me over, while wife did not lol.
Still friends and she was at mine for ChristmasNever have to worry about that as I’m never getting married.
No idea. I won't be seeking divorce so long as my wife remains loyal.
Still friendly with ex wife, especially since we had kids together
Amicable for sure. We each took back what we brought into the marriage. No one got another's stuff. We did it on our own... no. lawyers... just split the $300 court filing fee. We get along great.
After 20 years of marriage, my divorce was amicable.
it would not be pretty, but i'm not getting married thank god
yes but only because i would require a prenup before marriage
Whether it feels amicable or not, I keep it so on the surface for the sake of my child
I mean it took my parents 25 years, but sure, why not?
I did and it was as amicable as possible I suppose.
They always disappear as if we never even knew each other. I always think it's pretty sad.
No divorce is ever amicable. Some are just less hostile than others.
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It was.
I hope I never have to find out 😶
I don't see how it could.
It was anything but amicable. She stole my child.
We are still friends...
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