Can you drop some tips that helped you move on?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Stop trying to control everything, adapt, accept what's going on, find the good side of thing because we can always learn from anything that happens to us.
If someone leaves, if a relationship (romantic or friendship) is over, just let it go, you cannot hold onto people. The same goes from you side, if you wanna leave, stop talking to someone, just do it.
You're the most important person, you have put yourself first ALWAYS, you're not here to support and please everyone. (Depending on the context, of course) If you don't wanna go somewhere, don't go, if you don't want to do something, don't do it.
If someone tries to use something you did to make you feel ashamed, don't let them have the pleasure of succeeding their purpose, example: You threw up in a party and they randomly bring that up in front of someone to make you feel bad, be cool about it, act like you don't care cuz is not important, they'll look stupid and childish because those kind of comments are totally immature.
Your body is yours, if you eat well and do the necessary to maintain good health, the you're seeing your perfect body because when you're healthy it looks what it is supposed to look like and that's your perfect.

SaartjieJane · Accepted Answer

Distractions and time.
Try go out with friends more. if you find yourself doing nothing, thinking about everything and getting yourself upset then do something. Cool, clean, or any one of your hobbies. Just try keep busy and surround yourself around others.
I work with kids and while going through heart break they uplifted me so much🥲

Whatever2929292 · Answer

Sometimes mental help if needed. Kind of thinking about the bad things and not looking at it through rose colored glasses. Realizing there are others out there. Just crying it out. It is normal to be upset and sad and personally once I am done I feel better.

MrCon10t · Answer

I took a hard look at what I had done, found some things that could have been done differently and changed my approach regarding those situations going forward. I also decided to believe that my time and effort were precious and that my unappreciative partner didn’t deserve me or my efforts.

lucas262 · Answer

My family was very close.

Just the 5 of us.

My dog died and what she taught me was life dosnt go back to normal it's different now. So I stopped trying to fight it, to make it normal and just accept the new reality.

A couple years later when my dad died that is what helped me deal with my new reality so well.

DivineZero · Answer

Make a schedule for yourself to do things you like but are also self care. Manage every hour and you'll need to do this everyday. It will help you not go into depression doesn't help thinking about them. Obvi don't sleep with people to get over them never work and makes everything 2000000x worse

Spikey_uwu · Answer

Time. You can do things to distract yourself from the pain but after a while the chemicals wear off and the neuron connections break. Don't let urself beat urself up over it, you're both better people now.

serious · Answer

I have always been single so there is no question of moving on. However, yes there are several ways how one can move on. This should help

Cowboy6666 · Answer

Time heals. Besides you can engage yourself in activities and hobbies and divert your mind. Walking, reading magazines and books, planting trees, painting, watching funny movies, talking or texting with friends or someone online etc. ...

That's what I am doing since last few months 😅

Starlight007 · Answer

allow yourself to feel the pain its only natural to grieve. that's the best way to heal one day it will no longer be painful and you would have moved on.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Open up new options. Hit the gym or your weights hella hard and score something way up there above what was there before.

athlete_7 · Answer

Working out and celebrating my acheivements after doing my ( work or skills ) talking to people

Jamesshinobi · Answer

My older cousin once told me "to get over someome, you need to get umder someone else" i didn't take his advice but it made sense. i also didn't get over them for a loooong time.

maximumpower · Answer

realize that it takes/took 2 to get you there. promise yourself that you'll move on, convince yourself that there are more fish in the sea. act on all these.

Iron_Man · Answer

Move on from what a girlfriend it took me three years if you wanna call that moving on

SlickRick24 · Answer

Go to work, work overtime make yourself a nice chunk of money. Just enjoy your time by yourself because your awesome.

lexysax · Answer

It gets easier Find something to distract you. Find a new hobby and stay busy.  And don't look back.

xBarbiex · Answer

#1 You deserve better #2 Something better could happen

LilyoftheLake · Answer

I'm just here to read the replies for advice lol

Wise4myage · Answer

Do your best to stay focused on the positive.

monkeynutts · Answer

Netflix, packet of Tim tams.

sharrinfoxx · Answer

Don't medicate it only makes it worse

CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS · Answer

Hobbies

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