You should not have to pay him back, but the car loan is an interesting dilemma. If YOU were the one who co-signed on his loan, what would you want done?
Legally, since you never married, you do not need to remove him from the loan. Is his name on the title of the car?
Now, shutting off your cell phone and cancelling your auto insurance was a bit harsh, not to mention that if he's on the car's title, it was quite interesting to cancel the insurance on the car.
Well, let me ask you a hypothetical question. If you get a new guy in your life, what do you think he'll think about your ex on your loan?
I would recommend seeing if a family member can co-sign for you and just ending every little bit of relationship with this boy, yes BOY.
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You both paid for things to help each other out, There was never a deal to say that you had to pay each other back, If he wants money from you for what he "did" for you then you should actually say you want money from him for what you did for him, Such as legal fee's. We both know he wouldn't pay that or he wouldn't be asking you for money back. I say you tell him no get off his lazy ass get a good paying job take his money out of that and forget about anything you both think you're in, Cut all ties with him!
i say f*** him... tell him you own him nothing and he should go get the money from his whore of a girl friend if he really wants money that bad... and if he continues to bug you... try ignoring him... my last boyfriend did the same thing to me with housing...and if he was asking for money... I would laugh in his face and tell him to go f*** himself... you don't owe anything to him... and he is a d*** head for asking...
No, you are not wrong. You are more than right. You do not owe him nothing. Your ex is just like my ex. They want to come out the relationship without any loss at all. They are the dumpers and they want us, the dumpees to take all the losses and that includes the money as well. These guys are not men at all.
Ignore him and sort out whatever complications you still have together. Move on and leave that loser alone.
When you're in a relationship you do things together, you both spend money on things so unless he loaned you money and you had an agreement as to pay it back or you had some arrangement for saying off a certain thing then no you don't owe him money. You can't at the end of a relationship start counting how much you spent on the other person and try to claim it back. I'm sorry the relationship didn't work out x
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If it was a loan and you were paying him back during the relationship, then you have to pay him back after the relationship. Otherwise tell him to pound sand.
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