Ways to make divorce easier?

[Sarahsar1]

Any ideas how to make divorce a little less harder and stressful? Especially when you have kids. How can I make the other person understand that everything will work out. Also there is not love anymore. What do you do when there is no love?

[GurlMaster40]

Don’t say no to your kids when there are positive things. It gives them positive things to do and think about and then you can either be happy with them or handle adult stuff when they are having fun. Also when your kids are offering solutions then say (with a happy face) that it sounds like a good idea. Then if there are any kinks in the plans that they create you can try to offer solutions to fix those kinks. Also have a few spa days here and there. If you have girls that would enjoy it and be quiet ish then maybe invite them to. I hope these ideas help. Keep in mind that it will always be hard but if you have positive things a lot then it gives them almost no opportunity to think about the negative. Also hint hint it also could help you if you do positive things as well.

[GurlMaster40]

Thank you for the MHO!

[dudeinohio]

My ex and I did our own dissolution. No lawyers. The process was fast, without any court delays. Less painful. if there is no bickering. We calculated my child support and i. pay that without state interference.

[In_Trance]

you stick to your point, don't play games and stay out of court

[Anonymous]

Talk to a good lawyer and make sure you get child support.