Me and my ex relationship lasted for two years. it was a very happy, healthy relationship but we ended on good terms because we just know longer loved each other anymore and he was moving away for work. He told me he would always love me even if the love we had wasn't the same as it used to be.
We had very romantic relationship and he took a few professional pictures of me back when we were together that I'd die if they got out now but I trust he wouldn't do that to me.
He's a professional photographer and that the whole reason he moved away for work by the way.
I met my now future husband to be a year after we broke up. I love him so much and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. He makes me so happy.
Recently we went to a friend of mines birthday party and my ex was there. My fiancé doesn't know he's my ex and I tried to avoid him and him finding out we were getting married. One of my friends mentioned it to him in front of everyone and he insisted on being our wedding photographer free of charge. He said he'd being doing a old friend favour and that he really wanted to.
My fiance wouldn't stop saying how nice a guy he was the entire night so I told him the truth. He said if it was years ago and we are just friends now there's nothing to worry about and that he trusts me. It's not that I don't think he trusts me it's the fact I feel uncomfortable with a man I used to sleep with being at my wedding.
Plus I think it's disrespectful to my fiance. I don't really believe in being friends with ex's Im just nice to him for the sake of our mutual friends and he didn't do anything wrong to me so why should I be mean.
I tried to tell him no but he said it's really no big issue and didn't really listen to me
