Who initiated? Or mutual?
What was the reason of your last breakup? Was it a bad breakup? Or in good terms?
Mutual, she was too busy with her job and travelled all over the country and i had a 9 to 5 job so we couldn't really meet! We decided to break up since we couldn't even text really..
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Because I canāt get along with anyone for too long in very close relationships.
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She is an alcoholic. It was VERY nasty and quite taxing on me.
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Not much I could do about it she was excessively shyOh man that was years ago and all I remember was that I was the one who did the breaking up. She wasnāt really the reason I gave up on relationships but Iām pretty sure me giving up on relationships had something to do with the break up.
And yeah Iām almost certain it was messy given she was really into me at the time and I lost interest in her. Not much I could do about it she was excessively shy like she was the kind of person who would blush and get nervous talking to her boyfriend I know this because she did it with me. Needless to say she wasnāt really comfortable about people knowing about our Relationship not to say she didnāt tell people she just was overly worried about what would happen and ultimately nothing happened people didnāt really care. Yeah I miss her sometimes but ultimately I think I made the right decision.
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Bad breakup, good couse i wasn't close... otherwise i don't know what would have happened...
A neighbour of mine sent me a text while i was outside the country asking me : "do you know how good is your woman in bed?", i smashed the phone, then when i recollected, i called her from another phone and asked her if it was true... her answer was like..: "happened when we had a beer", really? 🤬, i was fuming.. i asked her...: "what about if you had a bottle of JD?, Than you would have an Orgy?"(i was being sarcastic) at that time, i told her...:You know what? Lets part ways you left, and i'm going right!, i don't ever want to hear from you... EVER!. So yeah, wasn't a good break up, and had happened in December 2007, since then, i'm All single and Good!, no need more Drama in my life, just living the Moment! Life is too short to fill up my mind with "crazy stuff"... -
She repeatedly lied to me, even about small things. Things about her personality, likes, dislikes, etc. were actually not true and after being married then her real self came out. She also wasn't the type to initiate affection so I always had to be the pone initiating everything. Plus she would get mad at me because I would never drink alcohol.
I divorced her. She tried to screw me over in court, but my stuff was in my parent's name before I filed for divorce. lol She got nothing.
I learned that until you live with someone you don't really know them no matter how long you have known or dated them. It is more difficult for people to put on a show and lie when you live with them and are together every day.
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It was a long term relationship, but it had fizzled over time. It got to the point that even though we were still living together, we were no longer a couple. We finally admitted that we both needed to move on. It was very cordial and we remained good friends. I still loved her in a way, but not as a romantic partner.
It's weird. It's like after many years of a romantic relationship, we both put each other in the friend zone and it was too hard to cross back over. So we went our separate ways, but still remained close in some ways.
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I'll just tell you the reason i stopped dating the last girl i went out with--- bad hygeine. yup! omg it was disgusting. we were eating this real greasy fast food on her bed once and she got food everywhere on it and then after she was done she wiped away her greasy hands on her pants! and then she wanted to make out right after that?
ummm yeahhhh no thank you lol. I had to let her go. i just told her i wasn't interested pretty much. she accepted it although i sense she might have taken it harder than she let on.
Didn't happen yet but I'm considering it. He's turned out to be too self centered, prideful and material oriented. Absolutely zero emotional intelligence (which is a deal breaker to me, a little bit of a sensitive side is important. I want to feel like I'm talking to a human who feels with his heart, not just with his... special organ)
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A mixture of things really, she still wasn't fully over her last relationship, we were both I guess "political" but on opposite sides, and she always liked to put of the blue spring up politics, and either get upset or move on quickly.. In short I may have been a rebound (she denied it) and we couldn't have a civil discussion of our different worldviews.. It ended twice honestly.. The first time fairly well, and the second time, more uncertain..
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I ended it, because he was playing mind games. I really liked him too. But I guess it was the fake persona I liked, not who he really is.
I had a gut feeling he was playing me, but I let time reveal who he was.. Wish I'd ended it sooner though. It would have saved me more heartache. But it's a lesson learned. Never ignore my gut.
It's sounds silly, but I miss the person I thought he was. If that makes sense
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I broke up with him after an 8 year relationship, it was a terrible breakup. 2 years ago I found out on my birthday he had been on Grindr. More research showed me it had been going on for years and he had a meth/stimulant addiction. He definitely met up with guys and trans women and was on cg before we moved in together. Porn history showed BBC daddy fetish. Iām a young, small, white hispanic/Native American girl, literally the opposite of his fantasy. To this day he tries to reconcile and calls me his soulmate, will cry and beg me to forgive and be with him.
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My ex was 9 months pregnant. 2 days before she was due to give birth I had a major stroke that left me paralyzed on my right side for 9 months. I found out I have a rare blood disorder that causes me to have strokes. When I was finally released from the hospital my ex had given birth to our son. I didnāt know that she was cheating on me. When we broke up I was told she needed a whole man in her life. I moved out and started paying child support. 16 years later I took my son to the social security office to get a copy of his Social Security card to get a fishing license. I found out my son was not my son and he knew about it I stopped paying child support. Almost 4 years later Iām still single and will be for the rest of my life. You never know anymore who is being honest and who is not. Why take the risk.
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X she got me. I was spending time with another woman. I was a really robotic person by nature at that age and I on god didnāt see the repercussions of that.
The other woman was so redicously hot to and I could have had a night with her if I wanted to. Never did though. Honestly loved my x, wish I never made those mistakes and would have broken up over something stupid cause the woman I have now is 🔥not just for looks but her outlook on life, she has flaws and has fixed many of them thatās probably her #1 trait, loves improvement. - 602 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
She ended things. I was inexperienced in relationships and had been too keen. She fell expectantly pregnant and decided she wanted to prioritise that over our relationship. Whilst I understood that, she started making some worrying claims over access/custody which I didn't agree with. She miscarried a few weeks later. We never really talked after that
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The last girl I dated was just really annoying. There was a concert at the college she went to. By that time I was pretty sure I was going to dump her. I got her to buy tickets to the concert , I told her i would pay her back but it would be easier for her to buy the tickets since she was already on campus. I went to the show with her and never called her again. I was so sick of the dating scene i was going to give up women for a while maybe for good. I had gone out with 5 girls in about a year or so and they were all bad.
Ironically I met my furture wife the next day.
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Long story short, Pooh's a bastard. I did wish Sunny a happy birthday, assuming she's allowed online to read it.
Before her, there were two different girls in 2014. Both were veritable Amber Turds in their own right.
Annamae married a sailor. I concluded he was better for her, and got out of the way. Wilgrace has some loose screws, but I like her anyway.
If only I'd known you then, I'd have known to avoid architecture school girls from Cagayan de Oro. They're trouble!
Merre was terminally ill. And she died. But she was relieved that I still loved her, even though her ex-husband was heartless and made her feel unlovable. Alas, I couldn't save her. Still, wouldn't trade my time with her.
Marta was a witch. Most of the crushes before that were Amber Turds. Bullets dodged by not getting with them.
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My boyfriend liked my cousin. I broke up with him and he was fine with it. Apparently he had liked her for a year. We only dated a month and a half. He is my best friend now though, don't even ask me how that happened LONG story
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He did, he realized that he isn't that much in love with me and according to him, he didn't see a future with me and that I'm "so amazing and deserve someone better than him"
I honestly believe that he just got scared, cause he realized that this could really be something serious for a long term (and not like his past relationships) -
Out of nowhere the woman imagined herself as being Mrs. MTC29. I have no idea where that notion came from, but it isn't happening.
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He did but Iām thankful he broke up with me even though it was really painful and hard for me to let go, and it was bad. Iām not exactly sure why. He said I was ātoo muchā
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I left, because he didn't care about our relationship he was sharing me with his friends two or three at a time it was fun the first two times but after that he just showed he didn't love or respect me. So it was a bad break up I had been with him for two years a week later I started dating his best friend who truly loves me and has shown it for the past three months.
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