What was the reason of your last breakup? Was it a bad breakup? Or in good terms?

Question

Who initiated? Or mutual?

MistaM2daE · Accepted Answer

Mutual, she was too busy with her job and travelled all over the country and i had a 9 to 5 job so we couldn't really meet! We decided to break up since we couldn't even text really..

OneManOnly01 · Accepted Answer

Because I can’t get along with anyone for too long in very close relationships.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

She is an alcoholic. It was VERY nasty and quite taxing on me.

crossdressingrihno · Answer

Not much I could do about it she was excessively shyOh man that was years ago and all I remember was that I was the one who did the breaking up. She wasn’t really the reason I gave up on relationships but I’m pretty sure me giving up on relationships had something to do with the break up.

And yeah I’m almost certain it was messy given she was really into me at the time and I lost interest in her. Not much I could do about it she was excessively shy like she was the kind of person who would blush and get nervous talking to her boyfriend I know this because she did it with me. Needless to say she wasn’t really comfortable about people knowing about our Relationship not to say she didn’t tell people she just was overly worried about what would happen and ultimately nothing happened people didn’t really care. Yeah I miss her sometimes but ultimately I think I made the right decision.

If somehow the person I broke up with is reading this then hello and I’ve changed social media since then.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Bad breakup, good couse i wasn't close... otherwise i don't know what would have happened...
A neighbour of mine sent me a text while i was outside the country asking me : "do you know how good is your woman in bed?", i smashed the phone, then when i recollected, i called her from another phone and asked her if it was true... her answer was like..: "happened when we had a beer", really? 🤬, i was fuming.. i asked her...: "what about if you had a bottle of JD?, Than you would have an Orgy?"(i was being sarcastic) at that time, i told her...:You know what? Lets part ways you left, and i'm going right!, i don't ever want to hear from you... EVER!. So yeah, wasn't a good break up, and had happened in December 2007, since then, i'm All single and Good!, no need more Drama in my life, just living the Moment! Life is too short to fill up my mind with "crazy stuff"...

HighValue · Answer

She repeatedly lied to me, even about small things. Things about her personality, likes, dislikes, etc. were actually not true and after being married then her real self came out. She also wasn't the type to initiate affection so I always had to be the pone initiating everything. Plus she would get mad at me because I would never drink alcohol.

I divorced her. She tried to screw me over in court, but my stuff was in my parent's name before I filed for divorce. lol She got nothing.

I learned that until you live with someone you don't really know them no matter how long you have known or dated them. It is more difficult for people to put on a show and lie when you live with them and are together every day.

WindAtMyBack · Answer

It was a long term relationship, but it had fizzled over time. It got to the point that even though we were still living together, we were no longer a couple. We finally admitted that we both needed to move on. It was very cordial and we remained good friends. I still loved her in a way, but not as a romantic partner.

It's weird. It's like after many years of a romantic relationship, we both put each other in the friend zone and it was too hard to cross back over. So we went our separate ways, but still remained close in some ways.

Still-alive · Answer

I'll just tell you the reason i stopped dating the last girl i went out with--- bad hygeine. yup! omg it was disgusting. we were eating this real greasy fast food on her bed once and she got food everywhere on it and then after she was done she wiped away her greasy hands on her pants! and then she wanted to make out right after that?

ummm yeahhhh no thank you lol. I had to let her go. i just told her i wasn't interested pretty much. she accepted it although i sense she might have taken it harder than she let on.

di6n9 · Answer

Didn't happen yet but I'm considering it. He's turned out to be too self centered, prideful and material oriented. Absolutely zero emotional intelligence (which is a deal breaker to me, a little bit of a sensitive side is important. I want to feel like I'm talking to a human who feels with his heart, not just with his... special organ)

JDavid25 · Answer

A mixture of things really, she still wasn't fully over her last relationship, we were both I guess "political" but on opposite sides, and she always liked to put of the blue spring up politics, and either get upset or move on quickly.. In short I may have been a rebound (she denied it) and we couldn't have a civil discussion of our different worldviews.. It ended twice honestly.. The first time fairly well, and the second time, more uncertain..

Sorrento-Sun · Answer

I ended it, because he was playing mind games. I really liked him too. But I guess it was the fake persona I liked, not who he really is.

I had a gut feeling he was playing me, but I let time reveal who he was.. Wish I'd ended it sooner though. It would have saved me more heartache. But it's a lesson learned. Never ignore my gut.

It's sounds silly, but I miss the person I thought he was. If that makes sense

Nina9 · Answer

I broke up with him after an 8 year relationship, it was a terrible breakup. 2 years ago I found out on my birthday he had been on Grindr. More research showed me it had been going on for years and he had a meth/stimulant addiction. He definitely met up with guys and trans women and was on cg before we moved in together. Porn history showed BBC daddy fetish. I’m a young, small, white hispanic/Native American girl, literally the opposite of his fantasy. To this day he tries to reconcile and calls me his soulmate, will cry and beg me to forgive and be with him.

Candlelight3173 · Answer

My ex was 9 months pregnant. 2 days before she was due to give birth I had a major stroke that left me paralyzed on my right side for 9 months. I found out I have a rare blood disorder that causes me to have strokes. When I was finally released from the hospital my ex had given birth to our son. I didn’t know that she was cheating on me. When we broke up I was told she needed a whole man in her life. I moved out and started paying child support. 16 years later I took my son to the social security office to get a copy of his Social Security card to get a fishing license. I found out my son was not my son and he knew about it I stopped paying child support. Almost 4 years later I’m still single and will be for the rest of my life. You never know anymore who is being honest and who is not. Why take the risk.

Spiritofn · Answer

X she got me. I was spending time with another woman. I was a really robotic person by nature at that age and I on god didn’t see the repercussions of that.

The other woman was so redicously hot to and I could have had a night with her if I wanted to. Never did though. Honestly loved my x, wish I never made those mistakes and would have broken up over something stupid cause the woman I have now is 🔥not just for looks but her outlook on life, she has flaws and has fixed many of them that’s probably her #1 trait, loves improvement.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

She ended things. I was inexperienced in relationships and had been too keen. She fell expectantly pregnant and decided she wanted to prioritise that over our relationship. Whilst I understood that, she started making some worrying claims over access/custody which I didn't agree with. She miscarried a few weeks later. We never really talked after that

exitseven · Answer

The last girl I dated was just really annoying. There was a concert at the college she went to. By that time I was pretty sure I was going to dump her. I got her to buy tickets to the concert , I told her i would pay her back but it would be easier for her to buy the tickets since she was already on campus. I went to the show with her and never called her again. I was so sick of the dating scene i was going to give up women for a while maybe for good. I had gone out with 5 girls in about a year or so and they were all bad.

Ironically I met my furture wife the next day.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Long story short, Pooh's a bastard. I did wish Sunny a happy birthday, assuming she's allowed online to read it.

Before her, there were two different girls in 2014. Both were veritable Amber Turds in their own right.

Annamae married a sailor. I concluded he was better for her, and got out of the way. Wilgrace has some loose screws, but I like her anyway.

If only I'd known you then, I'd have known to avoid architecture school girls from Cagayan de Oro. They're trouble!

Merre was terminally ill. And she died. But she was relieved that I still loved her, even though her ex-husband was heartless and made her feel unlovable. Alas, I couldn't save her. Still, wouldn't trade my time with her.

Marta was a witch. Most of the crushes before that were Amber Turds. Bullets dodged by not getting with them.

Butterfly07 · Answer

My boyfriend liked my cousin. I broke up with him and he was fine with it. Apparently he had liked her for a year. We only dated a month and a half. He is my best friend now though, don't even ask me how that happened LONG story

melanieeeB · Answer

He did, he realized that he isn't that much in love with me and according to him, he didn't see a future with me and that I'm "so amazing and deserve someone better than him"

I honestly believe that he just got scared, cause he realized that this could really be something serious for a long term (and not like his past relationships)

MTC29 · Answer

Out of nowhere the woman imagined herself as being Mrs. MTC29. I have no idea where that notion came from, but it isn't happening.

Mess96 · Answer

He did but I’m thankful he broke up with me even though it was really painful and hard for me to let go, and it was bad. I’m not exactly sure why. He said I was “too much”

goodgirlsteven · Answer

I left, because he didn't care about our relationship he was sharing me with his friends two or three at a time it was fun the first two times but after that he just showed he didn't love or respect me. So it was a bad break up I had been with him for two years a week later I started dating his best friend who truly loves me and has shown it for the past three months.

humanearth · Answer

They wouldn't accept my boys... They wanted me to dump them off on their mother that had a drug addiction. (Had meaning she is no longer alive. She OD)

hafinjun · Answer

My last relationship was 10 years long distance , she left me for a man I had asked her (and she lied, apparently) if she was getting involved with and each time her response was EWWWWE no way, well he inherited over a million dollars and now they are engaged. I can't honestly answer your question, I don't think it's fully sunk in.

AviatorTom · Answer

After 20 years of marriage, my then-wife instituted a divorce. The divorce itself was amicable as we both got together to work out the details of the divorce settlement.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

The last break up was because she wanted to travel around the world and not be serious about a future and growing together. Soooo yeah I’m good on that

lilyanony1 · Answer

He was wasting my time.
And trying to control my life and put me down...
I no longer need that in my life. I put up with his crap for so long it wasn't getting better, he offered me less and demanded more.
I'm worth more than crap.

neoagent1 · Answer

It wasn't mutual. I was very sad. I really really liked her except for her dog that shat inside in a kind of litter box.

Rbfhngjbgh · Answer

He treats me like, I'm not his girlfriend because he talk to other girl,😂he told her that he's single 🤣so i was like really i thought I have a boyfriend whole year!

McKellar · Answer

1. Apparently I had spoken about 1 of my last relationships to my ex,... which I probably only had done that like maybe once or twice, but that was it.

2. I talk to myself... which I think that seems like a ridiculous reason to break up with someone.

That was my very last relationship. It's been 5 years now, and I haven't been in a relationship since.

Marshymallow · Answer

Oh it was bad. Yk when you end up dating a player and then they act like they would change for you… that kinda thing yep. I suspected he was a player but I wasn’t really sure but then I found out and wasn’t having it so I dumped his a**

JaxiCats · Answer

He initiated it but didn’t confirm it, I did. He started seeing me as a friend instead of a love interest

NathanDavis · Answer

lmfao... you do get the best pictures ever, to go with your posts

BrickBiggems · Answer

Ladies, I think you would agree that a "cowuch" is the height of male attractiveness and masculinity. Right? Yes? Yes!

RavVid · Answer

Broke up on good terms because we took a while over it.

PamelaRivers · Answer

He dumped me, last year. Was bad, not going into all the details of it but it was caused by something some one else tried to do.

Hannajenky · Answer

We both realized we were not compatible we broke up right before covid but then we ended up kind of staying together because there was no way to meet other people easily so it was pretty toxic in the end.

dolemite89 · Answer

it was amicable our schedules/lifestyles just didn’t mesh well for something serious, we still hung out here and there after tho

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

She lost my class ring so I ended things with her. Maybe quite immature but it happened plus she didn't want a real relationship just foreplay sex

FallonSamuels · Answer

He was a narcissist. He was emotionally abusive, a pathological liar and cheated with the whole town. It was a bad breakup.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

She pushed me away and i have no desire to end up in jail over a woman. So it was kind of mutual. Could have been better. Could have been worse.

Nikhil_B · Answer

She was oUt messing with another guy saying she'll bee late froom work... Annd take it as late late and the next second she comes in while I'm milking this bigg girl xD

Kabluie · Answer

Mutual, friendly, neither of us wanted it to happen. Mental illness isn't fun.

dailyoctopus94 · Answer

She decided that three undisclosed vacations with three different guys was more important than marriage.

Texasgal95 · Answer

So my last boyfriend before my current one we were friends for a couple of years restart a day thanks pressured him and asking me out because together the first broke up with him because you don’t come see me you broke up with him back to college

GlassTop · Answer

Alcoholic, lying, cheating, and drug addict. All accumulated rapidly. It’s like She was possessed by a demon.

Jay20thagreat · Answer

My girlfriend broke up with me because her father wanted her to be with a Jewish man. I offered to convert but was laughed at. To this day I still do not understand what was so funny.

TroyDT · Answer

She moved for a job and I was not willing to sell the house I inherited or quit my job to follow her.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't do relationship... I'm the reason for many breakups...✌️

Philyouup · Answer

my breakup was horrible. mean spirited and fucking nasty. Made me not want another one

Hornyanhung · Answer

She was completely obsessed and extremely jealous and I can honestly say that I have never cheated in my life, she was pleased often

BurntKeyboard · Answer

My boyfriend. It was really, really sad for me. And the last thing I did was curse him out, which I feel really bad about.

moonpie89 · Answer

I've never been dumped. I'm always the one that becomes not interested anymore.

HaveNoName · Answer

Never had a relationship before marriage. And marriage still going on.

dudeinohio · Answer

Ex girlfriend initiated. Not sure of the whole reason.

Zolly99999 · Answer

She cheated on me. So a bad break up and was the one who broke it off...

Bluemax · Answer

She died. I don't know if that counts.

Theabcking · Answer

Women lie, men lie, money don't lie.

IveGotNoName · Answer

I never had a breakup

WhitneySnow · Answer

He kissed another girl

Finchie40 · Answer

Found out she was married

spartan55 · Answer

That's also highly classified. 😁

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