5 moFirst of all, he didn’t like that I live with my mom (because we live in New York, I work for a nonprofit agency so I don’t make a whole lot and neither me or my mother can afford the astronomical rents on Long Island without each other and even HE said it was too expensive living alone). He wanted a woman who can afford to live by herself in this state (only two of my friends can afford it). And the other reason was because I have ADHD. I don’t have bad ADHD symptom days often, but I was having one on the day of the breakup. He saw how bad it is when I have those days and couldn’t handle it (which I don’t blame him for, but I do blame him for being nasty about the breakup).
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Loving with family part would be a non-issue for me and probably a lot of men. The ADHD part, that can be a challenge as am learning through the boss I have who is also OCD and bi-polar. I never know which fixated version of him I am getting. Especially when he takes mushrooms…
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@MannMitAntworten I get it. You never know what you’re getting with ADHD, but the worst I get on bad days is forgetful and a bit ditzy, but he refused to understand the disorder and kept yelling at me, telling me that I was incompetent and that I couldn’t do anything for myself (which isn’t true) all because I missed a train and couldn’t figure out the stupid NYC subway app. The yelling and the put downs got me all upset which worsened the ADHD symptoms and when I tried to explain to him, he just rolled his eyes, ended the date and broke up with me.
I get neurodivergence can be challenging so I don’t blame him for ending it per se, I just wish he was nicer about it. - 5 mo
@silvermoon84 Forgetful or ditzy wouldn’t remotely phase me if that was the worst of it with him. He’s moody and fixates on the strangest things. I thinks he looks for things to get in a twist over. I like the business and my customers/friends is why I suffer through his presence.
Frankly I assumed his forgetfulness had to do with his constant pot use. I mean, he can be in the middle of saying something and completely forget what he was saying. It is bizarre. Then he members things that never happened. Even more bizarre. Anyway, I would take forgetful and ditzy over moody, angry, and lashing out often any day. - 5 mo
@MannMitAntworten I’m really sorry you’re dealing with that. It sounds like he’s more bipolar than anything else (never fun when multiple mental illnesses co-exist) but the pot use is probably the cause for that as well. I get that it’s now legal but unless it’s for medicinal purposes, it should be used in moderation. I hope he doesn’t smoke it on the job. Has anyone reported him yet? Why does he still have the job if he’s that bad?
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@silvermoon84 He can do as he pleases as he please. My boss … he’s the owner. Yes he smokes at work. Not that he does any work. He sits around staring at the tv all day then finds something to bitch about.
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@MannMitAntworten oh man. That sucks. Again really sorry to hear that
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Meh. Gives me something to joke about later. Life goes on. Right?
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@silvermoon84 Meh. Gives me something to joke about later. Life goes on. Right?
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Odd. Said it didn’t send the first time. :-p
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@MannMitAntworten it’s all good 😄
- 5 mo
@virgo2267 no, he didn’t ghost me. We definitely had the break up speech, I just forgot to mention that.
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468 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. The guy slept with all the moms of the PTA as well as a few of the teachers. Yay for the player.
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At some point one has to assume the ‘moms’ and ‘teachers’ are wise to his philandering as well. I am sure they all talked. They just wanted a sample from the fountain.
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lol he was absolutely crazy. He caught me on a crazy mood in my life, but I wasn’t the crazy one.
He lied in a big way about his age. He almost changed how I viewed seniors, entirely. He did partially.
I’ll just say: Once on a video call, and after an argument, I exhausted, had put my phone away from me, facing the ceiling and a few minutes later I heard him saying stuff along the lines of “me” dancing… and SUPPOSEDLY doing erotic stuff…
AFTER AN ARGUMENT. I am not and wasn’t at that time, the sort of lady to behave in that kind of way. And I was like a good 2.5 feet / or 3 away from the phone…
Essentially he had to have been hallucinating and wanking so. I. ended. the. call. 😐
And we ended the relationship lmao 🤣
The most bizarre human I ever did meet.
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5 moShe had kids and we disagreed on her parenting style.
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5 moThe depression I was suffering from ended it.
10 Reply869 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. I had a long distance relationship and she really put in very little effort into the relationship. When you are dating somebody you are supposed to be on your best behavior.
The last time I went out to see her she showed up at the airport in a dirty hoodie with her hair in some weird perm combed over to one side. She told me that she almost forgot to pick me up after I flew 1500 miles to see her.
All of a sudden I just did not see her the same way,. I tried to ignore it but a few months later I called her on the phone and broke up with her,.
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5 moGirlfriend became depressed two weeks into the lockdown and text me that she is depressed and needs to be single longer. At least that was her excuse. There is another theory revolving her being overwhelmed by guilt … unconfirmed likelihood that she cheated being the real reason why. Don’t give two shades of shit anymore. Either way, we are no longer together. Old news now.
00 Reply He was my first boyfriend. He was a year older and graduated and went off to college when I had a year of high school left.
It just wasn’t a doable situation with him leaving. It was amicable and necessary.
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5 moMy husband is the heartbeat of my heart I can't tear him from it
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Thank you so much for your kind words 🤍
She was a in a rush to get married and have kids and I wasn’t even close to that mindset
I ended it.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)5 moThe asshole demi cheated on me when i was sick with cancer and taking care of my friend who was dying of his own cancer and I was on the verge if being homeless. The asshole demi ran iff and got engaged to a goofy looking jackass then the bitch eventually married the unemployed lazy dumbass bum whos been mooching off her money ever since
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5 moThe comments:
00 ReplyI cheated on him after he cheated on his girlfriend with me and then he forgave me but I did not want to be a mother
00 Reply1.5K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. That was too long to remember the specfics.
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5 moShe had Borderline Personality Disorder. She brought up my one no-no topic completely unrelatedly in a mild argument, and I snapped. Told her off and blocked her right there.
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5 moShe moved to attend University and long distance wouldn't work
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5 moSimple she didn't feel the same about me anymore.
00 ReplyShe was a frigid biatch who might as well have been a roommate or my sister.
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5 moShe threatened to call the police. Like sweetie, we don't call the police here.
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3 moUltimately we were going in different directions in life.. Our priorities were very different and we couldn't agree on a lot of things
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5 moShe said that she was going on to call him and I said go for it im not sure what you think of me but I don't want to be with the same
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Anonymous(36-45)4 moThere was no intimacy involved I never even got a handjob from her either so because of that I refuse to call her an ex.
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5 moShe was for the streets and I was in love with someone else but she was too shy.
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00 ReplyShe dont have high sex drive so i broke up
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5 moI've never had a boyfriend💔
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Anonymous(25-29)5 moHe wanted kids and I didn't
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Anonymous(36-45)5 moI never had a break up.
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Anonymous(30-35)5 moFound out she was hooking up with her ex.
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Anonymous(25-29)5 moGot ghosted per usual
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5 moLost interest
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