I’m very sorry about the situation you are in. You should never tolerate cheaters. It’s no use mulling over the past, if you focus on all the negativity and toxicity, it’ll only bring you down. It’s okay to grieve the loss of a relationship. You trusted him, but he didn’t do the same and broke your trust. He was not a decent man. It is never your fault if your partner cheats. It’s always on them. If he was not happy with you, he could have either communicated his problems in a mature way or broken up with you. He didn’t do either, and instead chose to cheat on you which only reflects badly on his character.
I’m assuming he must have been incredibly charismatic and said sweet nothings to you in the beginning of your relationship? That’s called love bombing and you have to start identifying the red flags early on. You are still young, and dating is always trial and error. You have to focus on healing yourself first. Forget about this man. He sounds like someone you should never associate yourself with. These types of people are up to no good. I bet he would cheat on the next girl as well. You cannot change someone’s personality. He was gaslighting you and it sounds like an abusive relationship. I’m so glad that you realized your worth and dumped him the minute you caught him red handed. Good for you, girl.
You are not unwanted or dumb, you just need more experience and you can’t always say who will cheat and who won’t. I am pretty sure you will find a decent gentleman who would give you the world soon. Don’t you worry. Focus on yourself and divert your energy on more important things. This guy is far from important.
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