While a break up is never easy. when should you break up with her? is it when you lose interest?

[Anonymous]

[WonderBell99]

When you view spending time with them as a chore or something you have to do instead of something you want to do, I’d say the relationship has come to an end. I believe that is another way of saying that you’ve lost interest in her. You don’t have to feel guilty about it since it’s completely normal and happens often.

Honestly, when you even think of breaking up instead of wanting to make the relationship work, I’d say it’s best to break up. Because if you really want to be with that person or feel like you want to make it work, you would… but since that is not the case, best to part ways.

[Asker]

Is saying “, i do enjoy being your fiend and i do appreciate everything you done for me. i feel as it is for the best we talk to others now. Hope this makes sense.” A good reason and text to send?

[WonderBell99]

Everything was fine until “we can talk to others now.” That’s not how you break up. How long did the both of you date? Depending on the amount of months you’ve dated each other, you could either send them a text or at least, make a call. I usually advice against breaking up through text… but if it was only for a few months, I guess that’s okay.

“I enjoy spending time with you and appreciate everything you have done for me, but I feel like it would be best if we break up.”

[Asker]

I’m bad with words then

Yeah, I’m bad at this

[leighbee]

You gotta work at your relationship

[leighbee]

Thanks for the MHO!

[Asker]

You’re welcome

[Asker]

i said “Honey, i honestly feel it is the best we see others. As you know we been getting to know each other for almost four months now. We haven’t met yet, and it seems we might never. As much as it is difficult to say and been to plan any potential meet ups, we had obstacles and Hurdles with this. I wish you all the best with everything, hope everything goes well this month, next and for the future. Take care of yourself Katie. :) “

Is that not respectful to say?

:)