Shoudl I divorce my husband for going to the club?

[Anonymous]

Husband and I have been having problems and he wanted to separate for a bit but we didn’t get. This was a week ago and he’s been out every weekend for the past 2 weeks till 2-3 am. Last night he went out and said he was just having drinks with the guys and wouldn’t go to clubs. He texted me in the middle Of the night because he was ignoring my texts and calls and said he was at a club with the guys and refused to answer my calls or texts. He said he would call when he was on his way home. It is 2 am and he’s stil not answering or on way home. Should I divorce at this point? I have been felt so worthless

[SecretsofKB]

I think you and him need to sit down and have some serious conversations before you jump to divorce.

You're not happy with your marriage and it seems he's not happy either. You need to figure out why and if you two can do anything together to fix it.

Couples Counseling might be great for you two. You could discuss this on neutral ground with an outside and professional perspective.

Start there first.

[Asker]

He won’t do marriage counseling, it’s like he doesn’t care at all

[Anonymous]

take time to think about it. don't decide to divorce too fast.

[Anonymous]

Try marriage counseling first and see if that helps.