Husband and I have been together for 10 years. Married for 4. Both 28 years old. Originally we had a no club/bar rule without each other.
we have been going through marital problems and he won’t do counseling. Anyways he has been going to bars for the past 2 days weeks and coming home at 2-3 am. Last night I left town with family and he went to the club with his guys and didn’t get home until 3 am. I told him before he went out I wasn’t okay with it and he assured me he wouldn’t go.
he STILL went and when I questioned he said it wasn’t planned. He barely texted me back while he was out, and would not answer my calls. He just accused me of harassing.
at this point I feel like he has no respect for me or our marriage working out.
I love him more than anything but I’m scarred. I’m torn between my heart and my mind. Do I just file for divorce and stop wasting my time? Or do I let it go and hope he doesn’t do it again and continue to try and make it work?
