I have lost my internal tranquility after breakup with my ex. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I have just lost my life energy after breakup with my last ex girlfriend three months ago because of her misunderstanding me that I had messaged one of my friend as like "you are wonderful" for her artwork as to why she had performed great drawing. When she saw my message to her then she supposedly though that I could have cheated on her then breakup with me for that reason. We had been together for 5 months and I got terribly ruined in afterwards then lost my job too owing to the lack of my concentration. I can't recover myself.. Any suggestions?

[Changiis07]

If she's going to break up with you for this and isn't understanding the fact that you were only complimentaring her on the artwork then maybe she is too immature. Give it time if you want to connect with her you can try but if not there are plenty of fish in the sea. You don't need anyone to be happy but just focus on your goals

[DiegoO]

Don't go back to her and don't use certain extraordinary words with your friends of the opposite sex.

If your friend was "wonderful", what that makes your girlfriend? I mean, you gotta know how to express yourself, and to who. Another thing, did your ex show early signs of jealousy? Rewind and think of the first days you met; the first month, the first discussion. You may find out there was nothing healthy going on.

[Guy13]

Try 90 days alone and see how you feel. Maybe send a Christmas card 12/10 ?