Would you end a relationship if you believe your partner is too good for you?

[Anonymous]

[Rosexøxø]

I have done that before.

The thing is, there is no “too good,” in love.

Are WE too BAD for them? Or are they too bad for US? only in the sense they don’t love us (not genuine/ divided/ partial love), or they do not enjoy our company, or we do not enjoy their company.

Romantic Love is not our ‘mentored love,’ from parents and the advisers from our youth.

Romantic love is not a ‘serviced love.’

Romantic love is not an ‘asset love,’ or burden love.

Romantic love is not something that can be “repaid.”

•It’s a love of enjoying each other’s company and giving each affection, and showing the other you desire them and they show they desire you.•

If they have harmful habits or self harm themselves, then they are a bad INFLUENCE for you, and vice versa, if you have harmful habits.

Love is supposed to *add* to the lives we already have. Supposed to be a chance to receive affection from someone else, at any given moment, and a chance to enjoy another’s unconditional company, while being in this journey called ‘life.’

If a person thinks they don’t make enough money, are too ugly, unaccomplished for a person- that isn’t true love, they were involved with or believing in.

They aren’t obligated to give money to their lover, to make their lover “proud” of them, or beautify themselves for their lover.

Their lover should naturally choose them for their character and looks. Their company.

A man and a woman should both be making their own money, so they don’t have to worry about finances; etc.

No human is perfect… so no person is ever “too good for us.”

Remember that.

Establish yourself independently, first. 💵 (or just don’t ask them for money if you’re working on it).

Before and while with your lover:

Love and live your life. (Know enough about you to have hobbies and some goals, big or very small.(Just make it you so when they’re out, you have something to do and enjoy/occupy yourself; something to talk about when they get back). Take care of yourself in health, but love your natural looks for what they are and who you are, as well.

Work at your own pace of accomplishing the things you want.

That’s for you and that’s for them.

The rest between you both, which is shared: is shared quality time, talks, affection, special moments, hang outs, sleepy-time/ bedroom time (lol); etc. There’s no person who is “bad” at the things I just mentioned..

Maybe some are incompatible, but both will know it. Some love each other and enjoy what is had, so much so, that if they run into any roadblocks in those areas: small talks/ affection; etc.

they’ll just work on it with each other, until the other gets better at it, or they both do.

[Rosexøxø]

Would I end it now? No. Only if I can’t give them what they would need: real affection, talks together, quality time, bedroom time; etc.

[Rosexøxø]

It wouldn’t be based on my job/ other habits/ looks/ accomplishment in life. Those have nothing to do with love…

Only if they interfere with quality time and the true attributes of love.

[Hermitess]

End it? No, but I would constantly be on edge thinking that they’re going to leave me because they’re too good for me.

[Asker]

that is understandable

[DaveJord]

Nope, I would enjoy it for as long as I could... maybe who knows right.

It's like saying you would cut off your noise to spit your face.

It's like thinking, I can't pay my rent so I'll burn the house down.

It's like saying, I can't afford bread so I'll eat cake.

Don't be a self defeatist

[Asker]

yeah people need to learn that

[DaveJord]

You start thinking you ain't good enough, then start acting like or sending the unconscious vibe. The other starts to pick up on, then they starting maybe you're right.

But it was really you sabotaging yourself.

[DaveJord]

Start thinking not starting

[Asker]

yeah the unconscious vibe change kills

[FilmGuy93]

No, but that might be the lie I tell her to avoid having to explain that I found her too demanding.

[Asker]

very helpful

[Jamie05rhs]

No. I wouldn't talk to her in the first place.

If we actually got into a relationship, I would do everything in my power to cultivate and nurture the relationship.

[Asker]

a healthy perspective

[Jamie05rhs]

@lynnn Thank you. ☺️

[bubblegunnn]

Defintely nah yo..
He's a diamond and very worth to keep.
Also its gonna be a support for me to be better like him, so we r gonna be good couple 👫

[NathanDavis]

fortunately, I have never been this type of insecure

[bamesjond0069]

No. Only a moron would do this. Gee my boyfriend/girlfriend is so awesome... better dump them and date someone shittier, that would be better. Smh.

[Anonymous]

no but i would end it if i thought i was too good for them. soon you'll start to realize your worth.

[Noahzaid]

Yes, Because I don’t want her to keep reminding every once in a while that I’m not enough

[diana_james]

No, I would want someone who is good for me and I don't care if they're too good as long as they love me back. We only use the "you're too good for me" excuse when we actually don't want someone and we are trying to be nice.

[bowenw]

No, I would feel blessed to have them.

[Anonymous]

No, that’s foolish In my opinion.