Is this what girls really do?

[Anonymous]

To be with my new ex i had to unfollow every girl and delete every picture just cause she wanted. Not cause of anything that happened just cause she said i was looking at other women.

I treated her good up until i demanded love and respect and she just stopped showing it all together.

Fast forward to 2 days ago we broke up because i asked her to show me she cares about me in some way and she said i don’t take her out. I told her why would i take you out and spend my money if you can’t even treat me with respect and she said i won’t get it until i so what she says which was first unfollowing girls and deleting pictures now it’s taking her out even tho the only thing in the relationship she’s done is demand pointless stuff like telling her where i go hours before i go (we don’t live together or planned to hangout that day), then treating me different when i ask her why i need to do xyz to get simple things out of you.

I really do love her but I don't know how to get through to her

[Guy13]

Move on as you are dealing with an abusive woman and this is simply the tip of the iceberg. You leaving isn't nothing but a thing.

[Máiiréad]

She is very insecure in the relationship and does not trust that you will be faithful. Unless you have given her reason to feel that way, then this is probably coming from a past trauma of hers that she has not worked through.

You can love someone and not be good together for various reasons. If the relationship was toxic (which it sounds like it was from the information you provided), perhaps it was best.