Do you think it's time for God to take his revenge?

[Anonymous]

So long story short. I broke up with my ex. Basically because she was immature and selfish. It doesn't mean that our relationship was just trash... No everything is fun... And romantic on talk. But when it comes to actions.. Gosh... Anyway. When we broke up.. She was so hard broken but I wasn't. I knew it was the right decision and I was so sure of it... I started dating and immediately met my current girlfriend... For a year now... But my ex couldn't and she was really struggling. I don't know why but her struggles made me feel guilty and I felt like one day God is going to make her happy while turning my life into hell. And guess what happened. Once we broke up. I started working hard. I started making more money. And I started focusing on college.. Then out of the blue. I lost my job. ... I started failing classes. I started gaining weight and I feel like it's the time. On top of that I dream of her like crazy. And by the way she moved on... She went to a good college and now she is dating... I don't know why am I even writing this... the only thing I have rn. Is my amazing girlfriend. But I lost me

[Anonymous]

These negative things that happened isn’t because of revenge from god, it’s because that’s life and there is not a single person on earth who doesn’t encounter a bump in the road, or some hard times. Based on your logic, breaking up with someone in general dooms you to bad karma, and that’s not true. I say this because you didn’t cheat, leave her in some asshole way or treat her horrible in your relationship— you broke up because it wasn’t working for you anymore. Being the one broken up with when it’s not what you want and you really love or care for the person is hard, so if her heart was broken then that was unavoidable but hurting her was never your intention. You’re way too focused on your ex and the past, rather than this amazing woman you have now and what you want to happen in your future. Your ex is fine and happy, so maybe it’s time for you to do the same. Start getting your life back in order.

[Asker]

Thank you for speaking logic to me. I believe that's what I need to focus on

[Opinion Owner]

Yep! We’re like a month out from a whole new year, so I don't know if you are interested in vision boards or writing out a plan, but however you wanna do it, figure out your next steps. Like you got fired from your job, was it a job you really wanted? Is there something you’d want to do more? Sometimes these pitfalls are actually blessings in disguise.

[Anonymous]

Honestly just let by gones be by gones.

I can tell you're so full of drama. You want revenge from someone because she cheated or because you're a manipulative bully?

Do us all a favor and move on... talking about revenge the poor girl did nothing to you lol you can call her all types of names call her fat whatever but you can't say she's still with you and miserable.

[Asker]

Ummm, what are you talking about lol... You are out of context

[Opinion Owner]

Did she cheat on you?

[Opinion Owner]

She dodged a bullet

[DoctorSex]

I think therefore i am. You are shaping your reality by the way you think. Get out of negative thinking.

The easiest escape button is to improve your Diet, go raw fruits and veg.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[Guy13]

Comparing yourself in this way throughout your life to others is not healthy. Life is Cyclical.