How far is going to far, with revenge?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend and i got into a really ugly argument/fight and he did me so wrong. He also got into really heated with his friend. So his friend is telling me i deserve so much better & that i should fuck with him, and also have sex to get back at him. I don't know if that’s going to far?

[Dchrls78104]

This is relationship toxicity at its finest. First, there should be no third party in a relationship; differences of opinion between you and your SO should be settled between the two of you and SHOULD STAY THERE. Next, cheating is a definite nono and a sign of lack of love and respect for one's partner. Finally, acts of revenge come from the holding of grudges, which is a product of unresolved issues; nothing like this belongs in a relationship. Both cheating and acts of revenge are foolish and, far from solving problems or improving anything within the relationship, carry the risk of complicating life in general for all concerned, even outside of the relationship.

[MTC29]

"So his friend is telling me i deserve so much better & that i should fuck with him, and also have sex to get back at him."

I'm not advising you what to do about the ugly argument and fight with your boyfriend, but keep well clear of his friend. That guy is no one's friend. He is 100% out for himself and doesn't give a damn about anyone else. Get away from him!

[Asker]

Your actually so right ! That’s so dirty of him to come at me like that, but when you really hurt and vaunurable people tend to take advantage.

[SnakeBoop]

I'd you even have to think about whether revenge cheating is okay, HE deserves better.
Don't act like trash.

[Anonymous]

If you go for it then be prepared to lose your boyfriend, there’s no coming back from cheating

[Asker]

People take cheaters back all the time plus he said he cheated on me

[Opinion Owner]

Oh damn… I don’t think you should be hooking up with the friend tho it seems like he’s just taking advantage of you and the situation. He’s right that you do deserve better and that doesn’t include your boyfriend and that shady friend of his

[IronSword]

Said he cheated on you because he felt unloved, or completely betrayed your relationship?

[Jena-Min]

Any thought of revenge is going too far, you will add bitterness to bitterness.
The healthy thing is to let go and move on with your life, living happily in the best way you can!
"An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind." - Mahatma Gandhi

[Anonymous]

if you have sex with his friend then you really are a dumb bitch. he was manipulating you and him so he could fuck you. he's a piece of shit and you would be to if you fuck him and you're boyfriend would be right about you and that piece of shit so called friend of his

[Asker]

Your right but do you have me so harsh and call me out my name , but when you really hurt and vaunurable people tend to take advanta i almost fell for it

[Browneye57]

Urine. As in URINE IDIOT.
The ugly fight thing is a giant FAIL. And that's on YOU. Just shut up and move on, chalk it up to experience. You don't deserve a decent guy anyway, fucking clueless.
Yeah, go fuck a football team you idiot.

[Anonymous]

Your brain too wet. Some douche tells you to have revenge sex with him and you're like "hmm maybe i should."

He just wants to fuck you, you're going to feel like shit afterwards. Grow a spine

[EssenceOfLight]

If it's only form of retribution in you mind? Do it. However I would prefer a revenge where I'm not the ball that two dogs want to get.

[Anonymous]

You're a grown adult, and you need the advice of strangers on the internet to understand this?

[Asker]

not really I’m gonna do what i want regardless, i just needed a third opinion because all my friends are telling me to go for it but deep down i don’t think i want to

[IronSword]

@BriaToWet Ask yourself if it would be rational, would it not be better to make up and talk to each other and would you ever want to see him again because you refered to him as a boyfriend not an ex which implies that you still want to preserve that relationship.

[Tunasub]

Have fun with that... I mean why not just invite them both for a 3some?

[fred_durst]

go for it , i bet your boyfriend is secretly love to get cucked

[ChiTown33]

" his friend" lmao. Some friend!

[karaspara]

Too far

[Fuentes]

His friend fake