What is the worst thing that a partner tried to get you to do (excluding things that actually happened)?

[TinaLeeDawn]

In my case, it was my now ex. We had been dating since I was 16. He's the only guy I have ever slept with. (Poor dad still thinks I'm a virgin.) One night I went over to his house to meet him after he got off work. I was honestly hoping we'd had the night there at his place and wanted to spend it in bed. When we got there he said it was a long night at work and he had to tell me something. He had made some stupid bet on some game (NFL playoffs I think) and lost. I asked how much he lost, thinking it was just gonna be me paying for dates for a long time. He said well the bet was $500 for him if he won and if he lost (which he did) he would let the guy he made the bet with have sex with me.

I couldn't believe him, I asked what the hell he was thinking. He said, "I'm sorry but you have to let him, I made him a deal." I slapped the hell outa my (now ex) boyfriend. As I got in my car another car pulled into the driveway. I rolled down my window, "sorry he doesn't have a girlfriend, you all will have to work out the $500 some other way."

The other guy wasn't bad looking, it was just the idea my guy thought he could just make me have sex with any random guy he made a be with on something that I will not tolerate. Almost two years of a relationship, gone in a second. Part of me misses the good times with my ex, but I will never have a relationship with someone that thought that was ok.

[Guy13]

It was NOT a bet, by the way. How horrible but can’t blame it on the boy. You slept with him after all…. Why wouldn’t he able able to pimp you out?

Women objectify themselves, rather than glow in their Intelligent Design, as sexual objects, and men and being like men.

[God_of_Thunder]

The worst thing I can think of is when my (now ex) girlfriend wanted me to drive her over to her ex's house so that she could steal his fucking car! She still had the extra key, and she was mad at him.

Then she had the balls to get pissed at me when I told her "hell no." Like, I'm not helping you commit a fucking crime, and if that actually bothers you, then you're a psychopath. WTF!

[TinaLeeDawn]

Wow, maybe now you know why she is his ex.

[God_of_Thunder]

Yeah; she was a little bit nuts 🥴

[Mikeybear]

@TinaLeeDawn Why would he do this? Very disrespectful, and it is almost like he thinks as you as a piece of meat or a sex worker of some sort.

[Jennz6]

Nothing like that, good girl for not doing it.

[Sparkie460]

I'm really sorry that he tried to do this to you. Apparently he didn't think too much about you. Did he actually think you would do it? He had zero respect for you. Kudos
to you for handling it the way you did. Nobody tried to get me to do anything. We respected each other too much.

[TinaLeeDawn]

I don't know what he was thinking. Your right, clearly he didn't think much of me.

[Sparkie460]

Well he lost the biggest prize on that game, you. You're beautiful, you'll find someone better than him in no time.

[SnowedIn]

Well done you! That is awesome how you handled it. Sorry that happened though.

Thankfully I haven't had a partner try to get me to do something I didn't want to do.

[TinaLeeDawn]

I hope you never have to deal with anything like that.

[SnowedIn]

Me too and, again, I'm really sorry that happened.

[TinaLeeDawn]

thank you, nice to know there are nice guys out there.

[jakejake118]

@TinaLeeDawn thats literally like the worst ever. wtf is wrong with him? you def dodged a bullet with him. have you had any better bfs since?

[TinaLeeDawn]

@jakejake118 sorry just now got on here. No, not had a blind date once but nothing serious.

[exitseven]

What a shit bag. You didn;t dump him fast enough.

I really cannot think on anything bad a partner tried to get me to do. Maybe trying drugs but I never did.

[TinaLeeDawn]

I dumped him as soon as he told me that crap, before that he hadn't done anything bad that I'm aware of. If he had made bets like that before, he must have been lucky and won money and didn't feel like he had to tell me.

[Shamalien]

Stupid kids doing stupid kid things. You handled it well

[Furious_Revelation19]

I only just recently started having relationships and sex, and so nothing yet!! Should I expect something?

[TinaLeeDawn]

hopefully not, hope all is well with you.

[Furious_Revelation19]

Would you mind giving some advice? DM me if its possible?

[Furious_Revelation19]

Hey! can you dm me? I need some advice...

[joeldalton]

None of this is true.

[Kmoney100]

I’m sorry gurl

[In_Trance]

Go to church