Wife carries hurts far too long?

[Anonymous]

I was married before and have a son with my ex that we co-parent together (every other week). It was really difficult at first. At one point my ex filed a restraining order against my then fiancé. The order was reversed a year later by a judge, but even though that was seven years ago my now wife still harbors ill will against my ex. I try to keep peace but I’m always walking on eggshells. What can I do to help her let go of past hurts? We have a great marriage besides her holding onto past hurts far too long.

[Guy13]

Women have hard time forgiving sometimes.