6 weeks of no contacts, what do you think about it?

[chick]

We decided to have a break in our relationship and now it has been 6 weeks of no contact. I don't know what to think and what to do. Any suggestions? Should I initiate the conversation again?

[Miristheiss]

That sounds stupid.

First, if someone want a "BREAK" that means they want to be free to go F**K someone else and it not be cheating. Or, at best it means I'm with a person who cannot even figure out if they want to be with me. Great, who doesn't want the "special" person in their life wondering if they even want you around. That sounds like a long term keeper.

With either scenario that's a big "NO THANKS".

Any "break" means BREAK UP. If they brought that up then it was as a break up, no need to ever reach out to me again ever because I'm immediately going out with other people and we are done.

Oh, and if they come back later... what, after they F***D around? I'm supposed to want them ever again? Please.

Move on girl. You two are broken up for life. No need to reach out to him ever again.

[sunflower00]

I mean, this isn’t necessarily true. I’ve considered a break from my boyfriend not to fuck around with people or because I don’t love him, but because I do love him and want to be with him however his behaviour has been unacceptable and our relationship is strained, and a little break may help clear our minds and help us work out if it’s fixable or not

[Jdjfjcjj]

@sunflower00 in this case I wouldn't use the word break then but say you think we need to give each other a little time to clear our heads and get hopefully get back to a healthier state. I know it may sound like semantics but the term break is known by many to mean what the commenter above stated

[Guy13]

It sounds like a complete break to me. That other Piece must be working out well for someone.

[Pinay_ako]

6 weeks of radio silence is enough for me to say that it’s truly over and I just have to move on with my life. If they don’t reach out, why should I?

[Changiis07]

I wouldn't wait on him to decide if he wants to be with me or not I would just move on

[designer1]

It’s probably time to have a discussion of what each of you wants out of a relationship and why you each feel like your needs aren’t being met. If there is no willingness to compromise than it is most likely time to end the relationship.


I hope everything gets better!

[Finchie40]

It sounds like you need to move on for good and not waste your time , when someone needs a break from you for that long they don’t truly value you , you are best just to move on

[abc3643]

What is it that you WANT? Contact?
Who initiated this instance of no contact? Him or you?
What's the story?

[Piano_11]

Wow, six weeks is a lot. Did you agree on any conditions? Like if somebody should approach the other once they feel „ready“?

[SweetTwistedSatanist]

Woooo free fucking for 6 weeks. Having fun with strangers without being labeled as the bad guy or cheater wooooo. Can't wait til the next break!

[lottiebannotie]

Does seem a long time is he perhaps waiting for you to contact him or has he moved on you need to find out only one person you can ask

[Alex8736]

start talking to new people